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We unpack the difference between pain and suffering, why “time heals all wounds” misses the mark, and how love transforms loss instead of writing over it. You’ll hear about delayed grief and the role of being the family “rock,” the moments when sorrow arrives out of nowhere, and the quiet relief of saying “I’ve been through something similar” without hijacking someone else’s mourning. Along the way, we talk about daily micro-losses—misplaced pens, missed chances—as the practice that prepares us for the big goodbyes.

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Listener Notice: we discuss medical practices as part of lobotomizing patients in some detail. 

If you’re ready to trade inherited rules for intentional ones, this conversation will light a path. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help more people find the show. What rule are you rewriting this week?

Link to full article "(F)ailing women in psychiatry: lessons from a painful past" HERE

Tone A, Koziol M. (F)ailing women in psychiatry: lessons from a painful past. CMAJ. 2018 May 22;190(20):E624-E625. doi: 10.1503/cmaj.171277. Epub 2018 May 21. PMID: 30991349; PMCID: PMC5962395.

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Two people who were perfectly content being single walk into a conversation and stumble into something undeniable: clear alignment, unforced depth, and a joy that didn’t fade when the room got quiet. We unpack how high standards—no lies, no cheating, clear boundaries, reciprocity—didn’t make love harder to find; they made it obvious when it arrived. From hours of wordless eye contact to laughing at our own weirdness, we show how intimacy grows when authenticity is non-negotiable.

We also confront the hard questions most couples dodge. Were we love-bombing or love-bonding? How do you test intensity without collapsing into fantasy or panic? 

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Ever fallen for someone’s potential and woke up wondering when the real partnership would start? We dive straight into the messy middle: why “perfect” is a myth, how settling sneaks in under the banner of optimism, and what it takes to choose yourself without apology. From the first laugh‑out‑loud “dead grass” cold open to candid reflections on divorce, red flags, and quiet quitting of the heart, we pull apart the difference between co‑adulting and genuine partnership—and how acceptance and boundaries make all the difference.


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Family shouldn’t be a box you’re forced into; it should be a home you build on purpose. We dig into what “soul kin” really means and why the people who know your weird and love you harder for it become the truest definition of family. From childfree choices and the joyful chaos of dogs, a cat, and a fast-growing corn snake to the friends who pack at 3 a.m., we map out how care, consent, and reliability form the strongest bonds.

We also travel through queer history to honor the caretakers who showed up when institutions failed. The AIDS crisis taught our community how to build networks of love under pressure, with lesbians, activists, and artists stepping up long before official acknowledgment. We talk icons, stigma, and the power of visible allies, then connect those lessons to the way we support each other now. Love that is loud, practical, and consistent is more than a feeling or emotion; it’s infrastructure.

Faith enters the chat, too. We clarify our language, distinguish Christianity from “churchianity,” and share how spiritual harm can push people away from themselves. The conversation holds space for supportive believers while calling out weaponized dogma. Through it all, we return to the same North Star: family is who listens first, asks what you need, and shows up without keeping score.

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In the spirit of Halloween and Samhain - QC talks paranormal activity and all things spooky. 

You know the feeling when the back of your neck tingles? Or when you witness something unexplainable, like a bottle cap flying through the air that came from seemingly nowhere? 

Ghosts? Maybe. 

Spooky action at a distance? Absolutely.

From RandoNauting stories to a haunted school house rave -- cozy up with your favorite fall bevvy and join the HalloWooWoo celebration!

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Messy growth doesn’t mean you’re off track; it’s often the clearest sign you’re expanding. We riff on a weekly ceramics class and the two rules that keep us moving when life feels chaotic: keep going, then blend it out. Clay teaches what spreadsheets can’t—how momentum and gentle adjustments create form, and how “good enough to continue” beats “perfect enough to start.” From creative work to relationships and career pivots, we unpack why gratitude lowers resistance, how to zoom out when you lose the plot, and what it takes to trust your feet when the map isn’t finished.

We also call out the real villain: perfectionism. Setting rigid parameters before life can surprise you is a sure way to stall. Instead, we turn to heart-led choices, play as a love language, and tiny next steps that keep progress alive. You’ll hear a raw story of collapse and rebuilding identity from the inside out—letting labels fall, finding a steadier center, and discovering that clarity returns when you hold the process with softer hands. Think waterfall carving stone, think sculptor removing what isn’t there; the work of becoming is often subtraction.

When the noise spikes, we return to joy through simple rituals: a bath, a walk, a page of reflection, ten minutes of awe. Submission here means releasing the illusion of control, not giving up. If the only light on your path is your own, that’s still enough to see the next step. Come for the metaphors, stay for the practical tools, and leave with a steadier way to face your next messy expansion. If this resonates, subscribe, share with a friend who needs a nudge, and drop a review so more listeners can find the queermunity. Tell us: what’s your mess teaching you right now?

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Join us as Eryn and Cori share their favorite movies!

From cult classics to hidden gems -- we're going through movies that have a special place in our hearts and our home. 

The Library of Us (A playlist of trailers is available HERE!)

Showgirls (1995)
Kung Pow: Enter the Fist (2002)
Army of Darkness (1993)
The NeverEnding Story (1984)
Dark Crystal (1982)
The Labyrinth (1986)
Rocky Horror (1975)
Hamilton (2020)
The Legend of Billie Jean (1985)
The Brave Little Toaster (1987)
The Birdcage (1996)
To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar (1995)
Mean Girls (2004)
Everything Everywhere All At Once (2022)
The Princess Bride (1987)
How High (2001)
Men Who Stare At Goats (2009)
I Heart Huckabees (2004) 

Looking for a good read?

Checkout Tapout by Nicole Disney

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We can disagree. We can argue. 

We don't have to cause harm. We don't have to be mean. 

That's conflict without combat.

In this episode, Eryn and Cori talk about why fighting to 'win' never works (for any one), they talk about what they've learned through their worst conflicts and they give strategies on ways to pause, repair and maintain during conflict. 

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What have your worst conflicts taught you? 

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We're back. We couldn't 't leave you waiting for a new season!

Working together has never felt so easy — Cori and Eryn talk about how they like to “Divvy Up The Dirty Work”

We're talking anything from chores to finances and even the podcast, our pets and the pantry  — getting it all done takes some effort in our home. 

In any relationship — when our efforts are appreciated and met with similar efforts, it creates a sense of ‘fairness’ for everyone involved. Dishes may not be your favorite thing to do, or you may despise the idea of yard work — getting the work done can be more about the steps we take to accomplish the task together rather than the steps it takes to complete the task. 

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