Philosophics, a socio-political philosophical blog, presents a piece questioning the idealisation of traditional families. Through anecdotes of women who champion traditional marriage despite their own chaotic upbringings, the author highlights a yearning for the stability they never experienced. These women, products of dysfunctional "traditional" households marked by trauma and neglect, paradoxically cling to the fantasy of this family structure. The article suggests this desire stems from societal pressures and a nostalgic pursuit of an unachieved ideal rather than a genuine embrace of lived traditional family life. Ultimately, the author raises the question of why this contradictory adherence to a flawed concept persists.

https://philosophics.blog/2025/04/10/questioning-traditional-families/