In this episode of More Than Roommates, we’re joined by Nate Hilgenkamp, one of the co-hosts of the podcast, Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda. We discuss questions couples ask before marriage on topics such as purity, sex, conflict, and more. If you’re already married, be encouraged in your own married and share this episode with friends who are dating and engaged. 
 Scriptures: 2 Corinthians 6:14-15, Hebrews 12:1-2, Ephesians 5:3, 1 Corinthians 6:18, 1 Thessalonians 4:3, Romans 13:14, Romans 8:1 
 Resources: Outdated, by Jonathan “JP” Pokluda Ready or Knot, by Scott Kedersha The Ready or Knot Prayer Guide, by Scott Kedersha 
 Questions to Discuss: 1) Whether married or single, how can you grow in personal and relational purity? 2) How well do you and your significant other resolve conflict? 3) What dating and engaged couples can you share this episode with?

Episode 36 - Questions Couples Ask Before Marriage (feat. Nate Hilgenkamp)

Welcome to More Than Roommates, where we want to help you take the next step to be more intentional in your marriage. We want to help you avoid falling into the trap of being merely roommates with your spouse. We hope that through authentic, biblical, and practical conversation you will gain tools and wisdom to help you take one step closer to the Lord and the marriage He intends for you and your spouse. Listen in as Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, and Derek Davidson help you intentionally strengthen your relationship.

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In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss things we do that may seem weird to the world but allow us to be different in our marriages than the struggling marriages we all see around us. These are decisions we’ve each made that may seem unique but allow us to strengthen our marriages. 
 Scriptures: Romans 12:2 1 Peter 2:11 Philippians 3:20-21 2 Timothy 2:4 
 Resources: Podcast & Blog Post - 5 Weird Decisions that Make My Marriage Awesome 
 Questions to Discuss: 1. What are the things you do in your marriage that make you different than the marriages of the world? (Romans 12:2) 2. Where do you see your marriage blending in with the marriages of the world/non-Christian marriages? 3. Would your non-Christian friends look at your marriage and see something unique or different?

Episode 76 - Decisions We Make in Marriage That Might Seem Weird to the World

Do you and your spouse have inside jokes, traditions, or rituals that make your marriage unique and build a culture of exclusivity in your marriage? In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss the importance of building a strong culture in your marriage that makes it different than any other marriage on the planet. 
 Scriptures: Genesis 2:24-25 Revelation 2:4 Proverbs 5:18 
 Resources: Blog Post - How Inside Jokes And Rituals Can Strengthen Your Marriage 
 Discussion Questions: 1. What are some of your inside jokes or rituals in your marriage? 2. How can you build the culture of your marriage? What are the things that are like glue that bond your marriage together?

Episode 75 - Simple Ways to Build Culture In Your Marriage

Everyone of us struggles with temptation—even Jesus faced temptations! What are the temptations we need to avoid that can wreck our marriage? And how is marriage uniquely designed so that we can help each other flee from temptations? 
 Scriptures: Proverbs 5 Proverbs 18:8 Proverbs 13:20 1 Peter 1:16 
 Questions to Discuss: 1. What does it look like for you to flee from temptation? 2. What temptations do you face? How can your spouse help you? 3. How can you move the line, magnify the consequences, and map out your escape? 4. What would be helpful for you to confess to your spouse and to your community to help you with your temptations? 
 Resources: Book - Think Ahead: 7 Decisions You Can Make Today for the God-Honoring Life You Want Tomorrow, by Craig Groeschel

Episode 74 - How To Fight Your Temptations

On this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek and Scott have an authentic and honest conversation with Aaron Smith from the ministry Marriage After God. We discuss pornography, intimacy issues, and the challenges many couples face. Aaron and his wife Jennifer hope to inspire individuals to draw closer to God and their spouse as they chase boldly after God’s purpose for their life together. 
 Scriptures: Hebrews 4:15 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 
 Questions to Discuss: 1. How are you and your spouse doing at consistently praying together? 2. What’s one step you and your spouse can take to pray together on a more consistent basis? 
 Resources: Aaron & Jennifer Smith’s Website – Marriage After God The Smiths new book – The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers for Our Marriage Aaron and Jennifer Smith’s Marriage Podcast – Marriage After God

Episode 73 - Strengthen Your Marriage Through Prayer (feat. Aaron Smith)

In our culture, it’s extremely common for married people to have celebrity crushes—studies say 80% of married men and women have celebrity crushes. Does that make it okay for you or your spouse to have a celebrity crush? Should you have crushes on anyone besides your spouse? 
 Scriptures: Proverbs 5:18-19 Romans 12:1-2, 13:14 Ephesians 5:3 1 Corinthians 6:18 
 Questions to Discuss: Who’s the most famous person you’ve ever met? Why do you think we obsess about celebrities? Why do you think people believe it’s acceptable to have a celebrity crush but not okay to have a crush on non-celebrities? Tell your spouse what you love about them and then go crush on them!

Episode 36 - Questions Couples Ask Before Marriage (feat. Nate Hilgenkamp)

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