Questions that Matters

In this world, we see so much animosity, hate and division. We're unable to stand together as one when we should be able to. I've found through my journey towards self-discovery that being an authentic person is a lot more important than living someone else's agenda. With this being said, it is important for me to share my attitude and mindset with you, the reader.

When I look back at where I was six years ago, it's an incredibly different journey than it is to walk alongside you now. It has been both the best and the worst thing to happen in my life. From being the type of person who was afraid of failure and had no idea how to deal with things that didn't go "according" to plan, to realizing how much bigger your role in life can be than you might assume.

You are always changing, growing, learning and discovering. You are on a path of self-discovery and you should never stop, for this is what life is all about...

Question 1: Who am I?

I have been asked this question so many times and sometimes these questions we often find ourselves asking as we get older. They can feel so elusive, but they have a way of creeping up on you when you least expect it.

When I was young I used to say that I am an optimist who believes in the future. This is not entirely true, because even though I do believe in the future I also have a strong desire to live in the present moment, not just exist but to actually be alive...

Question 2: Where do I want to go in life?

Because there seem to be so many options, it's normal to have no idea where you will end up in life. Now that you're on the path to one of those options, it's natural to still have doubts and feel uncertain about your decision. But I want you to remember something: if you made this choice, it means that this is what you wanted for yourself—not what someone else wanted for you, not what you thought would impress people, or not what would make others happy...

Question 3: What to expect from life?

To live means to constantly expect. You're expected to behave in a certain way and you're expected to achieve in a certain field. With all expectations, you will feel pressure and stress that can lead to friction with those around you and even with yourself. Don't expect yourself to be perfect, the world would not get along without mistakes! Learn from them instead of putting yourself down when they happen.

Question 4: Where does this attitude come from?

We live in a culture that not only values but demands instant gratification—and it is a problem. We look less and less to embody the virtues of patience, hard work, and persistence. In our age of swift and easy victories, we don't realize that nothing amazing was ever accomplished in the short term. At times it can be difficult to see how our snarky comments affect others, or how much we rely on people's efforts to make ourselves look good...

Finally, while change can be difficult and uncomfortable, it can also be beneficial. You never know what you're going to get out of it, but the only way to find out is to try. Change is inevitable, and it can come from anywhere at any time. So don't allow fear to stop you from doing and experiencing everything that life has to offer. Just be sure you can handle what comes your way and don't let any fears hold you back from taking a chance—you might end up glad that you did...