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There's a difference between being busy and being anchored.
In this episode, we're talking about what it looks like to live anchored and awake instead of reactive and reaching for quick dopamine hits.
If you've ever found yourself grabbing your phone, a snack, or noise the second you feel overwhelmed, this conversation will feel familiar. Not because you're lazy. Not because you lack discipline. But because your nervous system is tired — and you've been running on empty.
Today we're reframing the cycle.
What if instead of constantly managing chaos, you preemptively filled yourself up? What if your body felt steady, your mind felt focused, and your life felt manageable — not because everything changed, but because you were anchored first?
We'll talk about:
Why we reach for quick dopamine when we feel dysregulated
What "anchored and awake" actually feels like in your body
How to fill yourself before the crash
Practical rhythms that help you stay steady instead of scrambling
You don't need more willpower. You need fullness.
If you want help getting started, I created a free Screen Audit + Dopamine Menu to help you reset your habits in a gentle, realistic way.
You can grab it here by signing up for our email list: https://looselystructuredliving.com/the-podcast
Come get anchored. 🌿
By Becca MallietThere's a difference between being busy and being anchored.
In this episode, we're talking about what it looks like to live anchored and awake instead of reactive and reaching for quick dopamine hits.
If you've ever found yourself grabbing your phone, a snack, or noise the second you feel overwhelmed, this conversation will feel familiar. Not because you're lazy. Not because you lack discipline. But because your nervous system is tired — and you've been running on empty.
Today we're reframing the cycle.
What if instead of constantly managing chaos, you preemptively filled yourself up? What if your body felt steady, your mind felt focused, and your life felt manageable — not because everything changed, but because you were anchored first?
We'll talk about:
Why we reach for quick dopamine when we feel dysregulated
What "anchored and awake" actually feels like in your body
How to fill yourself before the crash
Practical rhythms that help you stay steady instead of scrambling
You don't need more willpower. You need fullness.
If you want help getting started, I created a free Screen Audit + Dopamine Menu to help you reset your habits in a gentle, realistic way.
You can grab it here by signing up for our email list: https://looselystructuredliving.com/the-podcast
Come get anchored. 🌿