I just want to share my sincere appreciation to all single parents, other people that have dependents, people that they care for, and everybody else that has some sort of constraint that prevents them from “performing” in #academic life.
Academic life unfortunately has placed “performance” above all else. Understandably, with budget constraints and global competition, it makes sense to focus on “productivity” and “performance.” However, “productivity” has all sorts of baggage attached to it that leads to unhealthy behavior.
Screw the culture of “productivity,” and focus on just doing good work that you are currently capable of doing. Worrying about “productivity”does not make you productive anyways. It leads to unhealthy strategic behavior. Everytime.
I just want you to remember that your life and how it is right now is perfectly awesome. What you get to, and how much you “perform” right now is exactly what you need to do, and what you can possibly do with what you have.
Don’t let the outside world tell you otherwise, and you are at the right stage for who you are right now. Don’t forget how amazing that you actually are.
You’re absolutely remarkable. The outside world does not who know who you are, so why should they ever give you any sort of special consideration? That’s why it’s extra important for you to remember that you are amazing.
You be you. You are good enough.