R3ciprocity.com - Prof David Maslach: Innovation; Research Life; Striving Towards Happiness

Should I quit building the R3ciprocity Project when nobody apparently is believing in it. I can’t get it to fund itself, do you think it is getting close to stop building it.

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Practice building the fort that protects you from the outside world. Many people are not in your corner and they don’t want to see you do well.

In my experience, you have to build your tribe and that tribe might be just you. The fort protects your tribe. Realize that the rest of the world might want to tear that tribe and fort down.

It’s OK. Let them. The problem is on them, and you can’t fix it. Just distance yourself and keep building.

You keep going forward knowing that you’re trying your best every day.

Your job is to keep trying to create a healthy and happy environment for you and your tribe.

There’s often not a single cause or single factor about why something actually works.

If you believe that there is a single cause, you’re often very naïve of the complexity of the world that’s around us.

Rather than boiling things down and having “cookie-cutter”simplistic views of the world, we need to be more open to complicated and painful world that we often cannot explain.

The more we wrestle with a complex world, and appreciate that there’s not a single answer, better off we will be.

my life will always be a messed up and chaotic, and there’s nothing that I can do about it.

The only thing that I can do at any given moment is to learn to love myself or who I am and spend a little bit of time with other people that are trying to do the same thing. I am in perfect and that’s OK.

I am not the problem.

Neither are you.

One of the things that I’ve learnt as I’ve gotten older is that sometimes you have to accept yourself and other people “as they are.”

We push ourselves to get better, faster, stronger to run away from who we actually really are.

The sooner you accept yourself and all of your wonderful traits, the sooner you will have self forgiveness.

Your life is not over, even at 90. You still have a lot of life to live and you might as well make something of yourself.

Go get after it regardless of what people think about you.

Is it just me, or is the hypocrisy among academic researchers very real? We study what boosts human performance and well-being in organizations—like taking breaks and fostering healthy relationships—but then we fail to practice what we preach.

Despite knowing the importance of self-care, many of us push ourselves to the brink, doing the exact opposite of what our research recommends. This contradiction needs to change. Instead of solely relying on studies and others, we need to discover what truly works for us individually.

Is pushing yourself to the limit really the best way to achieve success? The idea that more effort always leads to better performance and rewards isn't just flawed; it's unsustainable.

Ask Olympians how long they were in the Olympics for?

Those who prioritize longevity over peak performance at all times are the ones who truly excel over the long run, and perhaps even enjoy their lives.

Lately, there's been a shift in the academic conversations around me. For years, the emphasis was squarely on performance and succeeding—how many papers you publish, the grants you win, the impact factors. But I've noticed a welcome change in the narrative: it's moving from just succeeding to finding true meaning in what we do as professors.

This shift is profound and necessary. It challenges us to look beyond the traditional metrics of academic success and ask ourselves what really matters. Why do we teach? Why do we research? Is it just for accolades, or is there something more fulfilling at the core of our professional lives?

Embracing this perspective has been liberating. It encourages us, academics, to find joy and significance in our work, even if it doesn't always lead to a tangible 'win.' This mindset fosters a healthier, more sustainable approach to our careers, where personal satisfaction and impact on students and society become the real measures of success.

Let’s explore why seeking meaning in our academic roles can be more rewarding than chasing performance metrics. It’s time to redefine what success looks like in academia and prioritize what truly enriches us professionally and personally.