I hunted down Rachael Finley (AKA @instasteak) by harassing my other friends and trying to get her number. Her handle was always popping up on my feed and with a name like Steak, I recognized it. She looked like someone I would want to be friends with, and after this podcast… I think we’re real friends now? Rachael- correct me if I’m wrong.

She is a clothing designer/business owner- Her two lines are called Hot Lava and Teenage. She has an advice column called Steak Talk and it’s got a serious following. If you have any questions for Mizz Steak, check it out at http://steaktalk.tumblr.com/. She’s also mom to an incredibly cute four year old girl named Mars, and two gargantuan dogs named Primo and Valentine.

Listen to us talk about bringing kids into the world when you’ve had a challenging childhood, speaking about your feelings to people you’re intimidated by, trying new things, nakedness, Gloria Allred (she interviewed her for Vice and I’m so jealous), social media rules in intimate relationships, and fair weather friends.

I'm... @Atlantabean

And she's @Instasteak

also... cute clothes here --> @ShopHotLava @Teenage