Kim Scott is a New York Times best-selling author who spoke in opposition to my approach to anti-racism and -sexism work in an article in the SF Chronicle. The title of the podcast is relevant to the nature of our conversation, and is also the operating title of her next book. I feel grateful to have had such a nice conversation after a not-so-nice initial interaction. We cover a lot of territory in this one: How can we interact more compassionately and productive across difference (especially on the internet)? How does Radical Candor work for people of color in the workplace? And much more...