Sometimes we get so caught up in our own "self-improvement program" that we forget completely that following Jesus isn't about self-improvement. It's about…well, following Jesus.
The chameleon is a pretty amazing animal that changes its skin colour to suit its surroundings. Pretty clever little fellow when you think about it. And in a sense, it's something that we all have a tendency of doing as well. We change according to our surroundings.
It's one of the reasons that every parent worries about their teenage son or daughter, getting in with the wrong crowd because that wrong crowd can drag them down. On the other hand, if they make friends with good, loyal, honest, decent people then that's going to influence them as well.
We know that. And if it applies to our teenagers, it applies to us too. It turns out that what we do and say and think and the places and the people we hang around, impact greatly on the things that we do and say and think.
Let me give you an example. It may be that you're a naturally very positive person but you hang around a bunch of people who only ever grumble and complain and before you know it, you're grumbling and complaining too.
And then you start thinking that way and seeing the world through their eyes. And one day, you kind of wake up and think, "Whatever happened to this incredibly positive and optimistic person I used to be?"
The more you think about it, the more we're just like that little chameleon.
Last week we spent some time looking at what it meant to break free from the power of sin. For many people, sin is a four-letter word but actually, sin means "to miss the mark – to miss the whole point of life". Sin is the thing that robs us of the fantastic life that God always had planned for us.
It's like an addiction. It's powerful. You do the wrong stuff, you feel guilty and condemned and it just gets worse and you end up on this downward spiral. This is not some religious guilt trip. You don't even have to be religious to figure it out. I'm not.
I mean, wives, if you constantly hen-pecked your husband, what you'll find is that he will withdraw emotionally from you and he won't want to spend time with you. Doesn't matter how right you are. And husbands, if all you do is work, work, work, work, work and you never spend time just cherishing your wife, you know she's not going to want to get intimate with you.
If we're lazy that has consequences. If we're angry that has consequences. If we're envious or proud, all those things have consequences.
So last week, we had a look at the power that God gives us to change. It's the most amazing power. If you missed it you can listen to those programs again at our website: adifferentperspective.org.
This week we're going to get really practical, we're going to look at where the rubber hits the road. How exactly do I live out Gods grace and Gods power so that they remove the power of sin over my life?
Now I want to start today with this very simple reality; you have to change where you live. The best way I've ever heard it explained is this; you own two dogs, a big black one and a small white one. Which one is going to be the stronger of the two? The one that you feed of course!
So many people are living under the burden of sin and yet they have the power to take some simple steps to step out of it. Paul the apostle explains this in Romans chapter 8. He talks about the flesh, our human sinful nature and the Spirit – God himself. He says:
If you walk according to the spirit, you're going to live in the spirit and have life but you walk according to the flesh, you're going to die. (Romans 8:5
See, this is the "two dog" analogy, which one are you going to feed, which one are you going to live in? The spirit or the flesh? God or our selfishness? Have a listen to how that wise old apostle puts it. he