There are times in life when we go through pain. When we mourn a loss. When we're lonely and afraid. What we need is someone to comfort us – but it seems that nothing anybody does or says can make it better.
I want to spend some time talking about comfort today. Not about the sort of comfort you get from sitting in a comfortable armchair but comfort in times of distress. It's an interesting concept. comfort. You know when we're children we fall over and we hurt ourselves and our Mum or our Dad picks us up, brushes off the dirt, holds us close while we sob and we wail.
What they're doing is they're comforting us and when we grow up, we still need comforting. I think it's about, well when you're going through pain or suffering, it's about knowing there's someone who cares, who empathises. Someone who feels our pain with us, someone who's not there to judge us or lecture us, just to hold us.
I think we've all felt that sense in our hearts when we see someone we love suffering, of wanting to hug them so hard that we can take their pain away even if it meant bearing their pain for them. That's comfort, my hunch is it comes from God, all good things inevitably do but sometimes, when we're hurting, it seems like there's no-one there to comfort us or we're hurting so deeply that nothing anyone says or does seems to make any difference.
I remember a time like that in my life, about 13 years ago. It was a time of deep distress and my whole being wept and I was completely alone on this earth. It was black, dark, fearful, lonely and the thing about the inky blackness is that it's like an impenetrable emotional barrier, a brick wall 3 foot deep. And no matter what friends and loved ones tried to say or do, nothing seems to be able to take the hurt away. Now the question is; what do we do in a place where we're desperately need to be comforted but it hurts so bad that nobody's able to comfort us?
Over the last few days and over the remainder of this week and next, on the program, we're taking a look at some of the promises that we can depend on. Promises direct from God, to you and me, ten of them in fact and today, I'm hoping to spend a few minutes with you looking at Gods promise to comfort us.
Now this word 'comfort' appears an awful lot of times through Gods word and more often than not its about God comforting us. In fact there's a promise Jesus made it during the Sermon on the Mount. He lists all the people to be blessed, 9 different groups of people and the second of those He says:
Blessed are those who mourn for they will be comforted.
And He also said,
I'm here to bind up the broken hearted.
He said that about Himself. Now when we're in pain and hurt, it's so hard for anyone else to break through but what I've discovered is that God breaks through, God, God has this amazing way of doing that. I remember when I was alone night after night after night and I just sat in my favourite armchair and prayed on and off, as best as I could and you know, somehow the Spirit of God got into my heart and I discovered how blessed we really can be when we mourn and God comforts us.
The apostle Paul got it too, he had a tough life this guy, he was in and out of prison, he was shipwrecked, he was beaten, he was starving. People rioted, people plotted to kill him, he was on death row. I mean you and I wouldn't want Paul's life for anything, ultimately he was martyred. This is what he writes to his friends in Corinth, you can read it in his second letter to the Corinthian Church, chapter 1 beginning at verse 3, he says:
Praise to God and the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. The Father of compassion and the God of all comfort who comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort those in any trouble with a comfort that we ourselves have received from God. Fo