Ray Legodi and Nontutuzela Sekgutleleng deal with the issue of forgiving your inlaws. They look at the aspects of causes of this bitterness and anger, moments where inlaws should be forgiven, how to forgive first yourself then the inlaws, effects of not forgiving like you end up being enemies, resentment, people getting suspicious of this behaviour, impact of children who wants to see their grandparents and finally how to forgive.