“Rage baiting” has been labeled the buzzword of 2025—but what does it actually mean? And more importantly, how does it show up in relationships?

In this episode of the Spaghetti Wall Podcast, Jason Wilcox, LCSW, and Dr. Thaen Saelee, licensed clinical psychologist, unpack the difference between intentional emotional provocation and normal emotional reactivity. Is your partner truly trying to trigger you—or are you both caught in defensiveness, core beliefs, and unresolved pain?

We explore:

1. What rage baiting really is (and isn’t)
2. The role of intentionality in conflict
3. Why trending psychological labels (gaslighting, narcissism, etc.) can harm relationships when misused
4. The difference between moral outrage and emotional dysregulation
5. How to pause, regulate, and reconnect instead of escalating

If you’ve ever felt “pushed” in an argument—or been accused of pushing someone else’s buttons—this episode will help you slow down, reflect, and respond with clarity instead of reactivity.

Connection before correction. Always.