Elaine and Erika talk about their views on long distance relationships, and the difficulties of dating during the pandemic. They talk about the struggles and different spectrums of these forms of dating.

The year 2020 hit us hard, but we should never look backwards. The way to moving on is to look forward. Our struggles in 2020 should be a breakthrough, never a breakdown.

How do we see and base a woman's worth? Is her value determined based on a man?

Elaine talks about how people can leave scars or wounds. People from broken relationships can have an impact in our lives. We need to recognize this.

We are part of our broken relationships. We are part of the drifts and the separation.

Why do we blame people for the unfortunate things that happen to them?

There is NO such thing as TOTGA--- The one that got away. We were made to believe by movies on what the one should be, but in reality, the one is a total opposite of what is depicted in movies.

What are the common lesbian stereotypes? How do we detoxify from these stereotypes?

This episode talks about my struggles, fears, and challenges in life as a lesbian. For comments and questions, you can DM me @rainbowswithelainedizon.

I wrote this piece when I was in quarantine. I spent a whole month literally alone in my apartment, before I decided to finally to go home to my parents. If you had the gift of the golden watch, would you change anything? Send me your thoughts and comments, DM me @rainbowswithelainedizon

Is there a possibility that the dumper would feel regret or pain? Is the dumper happy or contented with his/ her decision? DM me your thoughts after you listen to this episode @rainbowswithelainedizon