In this episode of the Mom Mode podcast, hosts Yajaira and Megan delve into the complexities of being the firstborn, also known as the 'assistant parent.' Both oldest children themselves, they share personal anecdotes about the expectations placed on the firstborn to mature faster and take on responsibilities early. They discuss both the benefits, such as heightened leadership skills, and the downsides, like increased pressure. Listeners gain insights into the pros and cons of having a helper child and how these dynamics play out differently in families with varying age gaps between siblings.