Episode Summary:

What if your kid grows up and still believes the world revolves around them? Not ideal, right? In this heartfelt episode, Scott Schimmel tackles a tough but necessary parenting question: Are we raising kids who instinctively put others first—or just looking out for themselves? Scott shares a powerful story from his own family about quiet generosity and gives practical ways parents can shape kids into selfless, others-focused adults. This episode dives deep into what a “life of meaning” really looks like—and how it’s built, one small act of service at a time.

In This Episode:

0:00 - Why selflessness doesn’t come naturally

2:30 - A story about Grandpa Fudd and the family dog

5:20 - Why service is a cornerstone of a meaningful life

8:10 - The parenting mindset shift we all need

10:05 - 3 simple ways to teach your kid to put others first

13:00 - The importance of modeling service, even when it’s inconvenient

15:00 - Real talk: what happens when we don’t model it

17:15 - A weekly question every parent should ask their kid

19:00 - Wrap-up + how to learn more

Takeaways for Parents:

Ask your kid: “What did you do today to put someone else first?”

Share stories of generosity from your own life or your family’s past. Include your kid in acts of service—even when it’s inconvenient. Be honest about the moments you miss the mark. That teaches humility.

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