Raising Loveliness

Are you just starting out in business or maybe even just thinking of starting a business?

If you said yes, this episode is just for you. 

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how much my business has changed over the years, how far I’ve come, and how much I’ve learned. I really believe that if you’re willing to commit and put in the work, you can build a sustainable business that works for you and the life you want to live. 

I also believe that, unfortunately, a lot of the advice you’ll find online just doesn’t tell the whole story.

In this episode of Raising Loveliness,  I am sharing the mistakes I’ve made, what I’ve learned along the way, and what I would do differently if I was just starting out.

In This Episode We Discuss:

• Getting crystal clear on what you do and who you help
• Testing out your ideas by learning what works and what you need to adjust so that the process works more smoothly moving forward.
• Choosing a niche that you can commit to for the next year or two, not necessarily for the rest of your life.
• Why starting out with only one main offering is to your benefit.
• The main reason it’s important to build connections without selling.

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned in business is that you’re going to learn so much more by taking action. Additionally, I’ve really come to believe that the biggest difference between those who succeed in business and those who don’t, is that those who succeed stick with it.

Above all, remember to always give yourself grace and patience. Good things don’t happen overnight. They take time.

I’m hoping these ideas are giving you something to start with and know that in future episodes I can give you even more support in building a business that works for you and the life you want to live.

And if you’re listening and thinking you’d really love some extra support in building a sustainable business that makes a difference and helps you live the life you want to live, visit raisingloveliness.com/together to learn more about how my amazing team and I can support you.

Have you ever thought about the parent you want to be and told yourself that you just don’t measure up? Have you ever tried to fit into a mold that doesn’t feel right?

My guest today knows exactly how that feels and she has made it her mission to spread the word that you don’t have to fit a mold, and instead can lean into your own strengths and forge your own path.

Deborah Chalk is a Life Coach who helps parents be the kind of parent they want to be without running on empty. She’s a Certified Wayfinder Life Coach and an Endorsed Mind-body Magic Coach. Her work has featured on ‘The Huffington Post,’ ‘Mind Body Green,’ ‘Chopra,’ and ‘Life Hack.’

Listen in as we talk about real-life parenting advice and how to apply the same principles to your heart-centered business. 

In This Episode We Discuss:

• That a lot of what we learn in parenting is just what we experienced as kids and that may or may not work for who we want to be as parents.
• How being in community with other like-minded parents really helped Deborah on her parenting journey and how she provides that for the parents she coaches.
• The importance of naturally playing to your strengths as a mom.
• Deborah’s recommendation for moms, especially moms of young children, to take time for themselves to recharge.
• How important it is to model caring for ourselves to our children because they will see that you are valuing yourself and do the same.

No matter what stage you are at in your parenting journey, whether you are just starting out or a seasoned parent of multiple children, we can all glean something valuable from this conversation.

Do you have the right kind of support in your business? 

How do you even find support that not only aligns with your business but also your personality and lifestyle? 

In this episode, I'm talking with Dawn Marcotte all about the importance of having support in your business and how to find the right support for you. Dawn is the founder of DM Consulting, LLC, a firm dedicated to making the world better by helping women entrepreneurs. 

Dawn is an author, a speaker, a mom, and a marathon runner. Her changing passions have led to her publishing books on topics ranging from parenting, to weight loss, to entrepreneurship, always with a focus on providing actionable information on complex issues. Dawn loves to share practical business advice in her Facebook group and when she isn't writing, she spends time in one of her gardens, reading all things mystery, and training for her next marathon.  

Even if you are a one-woman show or consider yourself a solopreneur, I truly believe that you can achieve more and often with less stress and more ease when you have support along the way. 

In This Episode We Discuss:

• How long it takes most entrepreneurs to make a consistent and measurable income
• Why it’s so important to surround yourself with people who resonate with you and who understand your life.
• What to remember before investing in any program, course, or service
• Why relationships are essential in the success of your business (and how to start connecting) 

I love that Dawn has made it her mission to represent the voices of different types of people in different walks of life.  

I learned so much from this conversation and so many things that Dawn shares really resonate with me as advice I wish I had years ago when I started out, and I can't wait to hear what you takeaway from this episode!

If you’re listening to this podcast, I know you care about your kids.  

So I’m guessing there are moments, days, or periods of time when you’re feeling a little overwhelmed, a little out of your element, or you’re getting caught up with fears and concerns.  

Sound familiar?  

My hope with this episode is that no matter what’s going on in your life, something I share here today will be exactly what you need to hear to feel a little better, to find a little hope or encouragement, and to remember that you’re not alone in this incredible journey of motherhood. 

I’m here to reassure you that you are doing your best in this moment. We all need to give ourselves a little grace.  

Listen in as I share 5 things to remember whenever you’re feeling overwhelmed, burning out, or are doubting yourself as a mom… 

Listen to to episode 2 to learn:

• What to remember when you don’t know what to do
• One essential step to take to be the best mom for your child(ren)
• The one practice that helps me let go of perfectionism and enjoy the present moment
• The one thing to remember when you find yourself comparing yourself or your child to anyone else
• Why I believe you’re the best mother for your child(ren) and that you’re probably doing much better than you think 

Parenting isn’t a one-size-fits-all situation. We have to learn what works for each child. 

So when you need help, whether it’s help for you or help for your child, remember that it’s not all on you. If you or your child is struggling, take a look at what you need and be willing to seek out support.  

I really believe that you’re not “failing” as a mom if you need extra help and that, in fact, being willing to seek extra support either for yourself or your child makes you a better mom because you’re trying to do the best to support your child/children. 

And in the end - I think that’s what matters most. It really doesn’t matter what any other mom is doing or how any other child is doing in comparison to my children or our family. All that matters is that I’m doing my best to support and care for my kids and that they know they are loved. 

So the next decision you have to make with your child/children, remember that you are the expert on your child. You’re making decisions with love and with the information you have right now. You’re doing better than you think you are and you’ve got this.

I’m so excited and grateful that you are here. 

Raising Loveliness is a concept I’ve nurtured in different ways over the years. The original idea behind Raising Loveliness is to help moms bring out the best in ourselves and our children, because I believe that as more of us love ourselves and create lives we love, the more loving we can be towards one another – and together, ever so gradually, we can cultivate a kinder, more compassionate world. 

I believe in the power and beauty of community – of coming together to find some common ground, of sharing our stories, and cheering each other on through our challenges and our victories. 

And so, that brings us to Raising Loveliness: The Podcast. 

Listen to episode 1 as I talk about:

• My vision for this podcast of bringing moms together for real conversations that help us create businesses and lives we love.
• My hope that each episode feels like you’re taking a little time to connect with a friend and that you feel inspired each time you listen.
• How much of my life was lived based on what I thought I was “supposed to” do. 
• The pivotal realization that with each new business I created I was trying to fit my family in around my job, but what I really wanted was a career that allowed me the freedom to put family FIRST
• As I learn more and continue to grow, I continue to evolve in my business and make changes so that my business works for me and the life I want to live.
• Why I believe that you have your dreams and ideas for a reason 

If you’re looking for guidance, ideas, and inspiration to help you make your vision – both for your life and your business – a reality, you’re in exactly the right place and I can’t wait to share this journey with you!

Whether you gain new insights or ideas that you can apply to your business or life as mom, or you simply find connection and realize you’re not alone in this incredible journey, I hope that this podcast can support you in loving yourself and your gifts, and in living a life that lights you up.