What does it truly take to reach young men in the classroom today?

On this episode, we sit down with Mr. Thomas, a dedicated first-year principal at an all-boys school in Houston, Texas. We explore his unique journey from working with Child Protective Services (CPS) to leading a school, and how his background in social work has shaped his approach to student success.

Mr. Thomas dives deep into the specific challenges and rewards of educating boys. From navigating socio-economic barriers to breaking down societal pressures, this conversation covers the vital importance of male role models and the need for a shift from punitive discipline to effective communication.

Whether you are an educator, a parent of a son, or a community leader, this episode offers powerful insights into accountability, fatherhood, and building a village around our youth.

In This Conversation, We Cover:

• The transition from social work to school administration.
• The psychology behind teaching boys vs. girls.
• Strategies for engaging middle school vs. high school students.
• Why "punishment" often fails and "communication" succeeds.
• The critical role of parent accountability.

Key Takeaways

• Diverse Experience Matters: Mr. Thomas uses his history in high-need schools and CPS to identify the root causes of student behavior.
• The "Boy" Dynamic: Boys require specific engagement strategies that differ significantly from co-ed environments.
• Mentorship is Key: For boys from single-parent households, the presence of consistent male figures at school is often a game-changer.
• Communication First: Effective discipline isn't about control; it's about understanding the "why" behind the behavior.

Time Stamps

00:00 Introduction to Mr. Thomas and His Journey

02:57 Transitioning into Education: A Personal Story

06:04 Understanding the All-Boys School Environment

08:56 The Unique Challenges of Educating Boys

12:02 The Role of Accountability in Success

14:57 The Importance of Male Role Models

17:46 Engagement Challenges in Middle vs. High School

21:09 Discipline and Communication in Education

23:52 Conclusion and Reflections on Education

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• YouVersion Devotional

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Are you worried your son is pulling away or struggling to express his emotions? In this episode of the Raising Sons Podcast, host Dr. Richelle Whittaker dives deep into the essential art of creating a "safe space" for boys in a world that often tells them to "man up."

We tackle the tough realities of modern parenting, including the rising threat of sextortion and how societal pressures impact a boy’s mental health. Whether you are navigating the toddler years or the teenage transition, Dr. Whittaker provides a roadmap for intentional parenting and emotional intelligence.

• The Power of Listening: How to listen without judgment so your son actually opens up.
• Combatting Toxic Masculinity: Breaking down the barriers that stop boys from sharing their feelings.
• Sextortion Awareness: Practical steps to protect your son from online predators and digital threats.
• Building Connection: Simple ways to be present and engage in meaningful conversations daily.
• Boy Mom Nation: An introduction to a community designed specifically to support mothers raising the next generation of men.

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Resources:

• Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sons
• Boy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategies
• YouVersion Devotional

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On this would be episode of the podcast, Dr. Richelle talks about the importance of rest, especially during the holiday season. Take heed and follow her suggestions to take some time to rest- do nothing- for whatever amount of time you can set aside to do so. Stay tuned for the next episode and all the activities connected with the Raising Sons movement!

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• Boy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategies
• YouVersion Devotional

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On this episode of the Raising Sons podcast, Dr. Richelle Whittaker discusses the importance of unraveling assumptions in parenting, particularly as they relate to raising boys. She emphasizes how past traumas and experiences can shape parenting styles and beliefs. Dr. Whittaker provides actionable steps for parents to acknowledge their beliefs, understand their origins, and take small daily actions to challenge and change these beliefs for healthier parenting outcomes.

Takeaways

-Unraveling assumptions is crucial in parenting.

-We bring our own traumas into parenting.

-Moms can and sometimes do project their past experiences onto their sons.

-Boys have emotions, just like everyone else.

-Acknowledging a problem is the first step to change.

-Understanding the origins of beliefs helps in addressing them.

-Taking action is essential for personal growth.

-Small daily actions can lead to significant changes.

-Healing is a journey, not a destination.

-Support systems are vital for navigating parenting challenges.

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Resources:

• Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sons
• Boy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategies
• YouVersion Devotional

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On this follow-up to Episode 1 (“From Overwhelmed to Empowered”), we dive deeper into what actually happens after a child receives a diagnosis, using a real case study from a mom whose 3-year-old son was recently diagnosed with autism.

If you’ve ever felt confused, scared, or unsure about the next steps after a diagnosis, this episode breaks down the process in a clear and compassionate way.

In today’s conversation, we discuss:

• What to do immediately after receiving a diagnosis
• What an IEP looks like for toddlers and why 504 plans typically come later
• How school services work for 3-year-olds
• How to handle the fear of sending your child on the school bus
• The step-by-step roadmap every parent needs
• How to advocate confidently even when you feel overwhelmed
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This episode is designed to help moms move from confusion to clarity and to remind you that you are not alone in this journey.

Helpful Links:

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On this episode of the Raising Sons Podcast, Dr. Richelle Whittaker discusses the challenges parents face after receiving a diagnosis for their child, particularly autism. She emphasizes the confusion that often follows a diagnosis and the importance of understanding special education services like IEPs and 504 plans. Dr. Whittaker encourages parents to advocate for their children with clarity and confidence, reminding them that they are not alone in this journey. The episode aims to empower parents by providing insights and support to navigate the complexities of the educational system and to foster a better understanding of their child's needs.

Takeaways

Getting a diagnosis isn't the hardest part.

The hardest part is figuring out what to do after it.

Parents are often left trying to make sense of terms like IEP and 504.

You can't advocate with confidence until you first understand.

The diagnosis doesn't define the child, it describes how they learn.

Advocacy is about walking in with clarity and confidence.

You're not behind; a diagnosis gives insight into support.

You have rights and options regarding special education services.

Getting help isn't weakness; it's wisdom.

You're not failing; you're learning.

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Welcome to Season 4 of the Raising Sons Podcast with Dr. Richelle Whittaker!

This season, we’re going beyond the mic now you can see the conversations that are helping moms, dads, and educators raise boys who are confident, emotionally whole, and rooted in purpose.

What to Expect in Season 4:

• Real case studies from my work with boys and families
• Insights from my bestselling book, Strong Men Start Here: A Mom’s Roadmap to Raising Confident and Emotionally Whole Sons
• Reflections from my YouVersion devotional, From Seed to Strength: A 5 Day Devotional on Raising Sons with Purpose
• Practical tools and faith-based strategies to help you guide your son — whether he’s a toddler, tween, or teen

Because raising sons isn’t just about keeping them safe, it’s about preparing them to lead, love, and live with strength and compassion.

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Start with the End in Mind. Let’s raise them right together.

In this powerful season finale of the Raising Sons Podcast, Dr. Richelle reflects on the most impactful lessons from Season 3 and shares the heart of what it means to raise boys who grow into strong, confident, and emotionally healthy men.

From the challenges of navigating summer camps to the importance of showing up consistently, even on hard days, Dr. Richelle offers wisdom every mom of boys needs to hear. You’ll discover why being present, engaged, and a non-judgmental listener matters more than perfection, and how your everyday decisions shape your son’s future.

This episode is your reminder that:

Strong men start with moms who keep showing up.

Listening without judgment builds lasting connection.

Consistency in parenting creates stability for boys to thrive.

Whether you’re reflecting on the past school year or preparing for a fresh start, this episode will leave you encouraged, equipped, and ready to “start with the end in mind.”

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• 3 key takeaways to guide you in raising emotionally whole boys
• How to parent through resistance and trust your instincts
• Why your presence—not perfection—makes the biggest impact
• A heartfelt message of hope and encouragement for every mom

If you’ve ever wondered if you’re doing enough for your son, this episode will remind you: you are enough, and you’re exactly the mom he needs.

📚 Resources Mentioned:

• Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sons
• Boy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategies
• YouVersion Devotional

On this episode of the Raising Sons Podcast, Dr. Richelle Whittaker (aka Dr. Shell) sits down with a very special guest, her oldest son, Christian, as he prepares to transition into high school. Together, unfiltered, they explore the emotional highs and lows of growing up, the challenges of making new friends, and the realities of shifting school environments.

Dr. Shell shares vulnerable reflections on letting go, trusting God, and walking the fine line between protecting and preparing our sons. Christian offers honest insights about what boys his age really think, the importance of finding your people, and what he’s learned about change, courage, and showing up for yourself.

This episode is packed with practical wisdom for moms raising boys, emotional encouragement for families navigating change, and a powerful reminder that transition doesn’t mean disconnection, they’re an invitation to grow together.

Link to previous show with Mr. Michael Dangerfield:https://redcircle.com/shows/96426c63-da1b-4a5b-8554-d97969ca6c9f/ep/e725e92b-e286-4f5d-9217-5ccb1dec81e9

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Check out the devotional From Seed to Strength: A 5 Day Devotional for Raising Sons with Purpose on YouVersion here: http://bible.us/r/ECI

Purchase the book, Strong Men Start Here: A Mom's Roadmap to Raising Confident and Emotionally Whole Sons here: https://bit.ly/strongmenstarthere

If you're having challenges with your son's development or behavior and need help, schedule a consultation, here.

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On this "Mom Musing" of the Raising Sons Podcast, Dr. Richelle opens up about the early emails she is receiving from her sons’ schools and the preparations already underway for a smooth new school year.

With one son transitioning to middle school and the other to high school, Dr. Whitaker shares her own strategy for easing chaos: getting her closet organized. She explains how simplifying just one part of her life creates a sense of calm and control amid the upcoming changes and hectic schedules.

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on what one thing they can tackle right now to better prepare themselves and their families for the school year ahead, whether that’s organizing a space, planning routines, or another practical step.

Dr. Whitaker also invites listeners to join the Boy Mom Nation community at a special founding member rate and announces the upcoming “Raising Sons Back to School Experience” on August 23rd in Houston. This in-person event will offer support from a male therapist for adolescent sons, a workshop for moms, and opportunities for connection and bonding over food and fun.

Join Boy Mom Nation here: https://boy-moms-united.mn.co/

Check out From Seed to Strength: A 5 Day Devotional for Raising Sons with Purpose on YouVersion: http://bible.us/r/ECI

Purchase the book, Strong Men Start Here: A Mom's Roadmap to Raising Confident and Emotionally Whole Sons : https://bit.ly/strongmenstarthere

If you're having challenges with your son's development or behavior and need help, schedule a consultation, here.

Text Raising Sons to 1.833.638.5442 to ask questions, share your thoughts, or to request a link to purchase the book

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