Random Candace Thoughts

What if the story you thought you made up… was actually your soul remembering it?

In this episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I’m sharing the wild moment when a past life reading confirmed everything I wrote in my upcoming book, Revenge is Forever (But So is Love)...a story I thought was fiction, but now feels like something much deeper!

We dive into reincarnation, soul contracts, divine partnerships, intuitive creativity, and the emotional echoes that follow us from lifetime to lifetime.

If you’ve ever felt a connection you couldn’t explain—or written something that felt too real—this one’s for you.

I also close with this week’s Oliver’s Light, honoring the idea that some stories don’t come from imagination… they come from remembrance.

✨ Topics in this episode:

• Past life reading experience

• Witch trial lifetime + soul lessons

• Divine partnership vs. control

• The amulet metaphor + breaking cycles

• Creative intuition and healing through writing

• The power of trusting your gut

📖 Revenge is Forever (But So is Love) — Coming soon
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Identity Evolution and Personal GrowthIn this episode, I’m getting honest about identity—how it shifts, how it gets buried under everything we’re “supposed” to be, and how freaking messy it can feel when you realize… you don’t even know who you are anymore.I open up about my own journey through motherhood, grief, burnout, business, mental health struggles, and how those seasons forced me to question everything. The truth? You’re allowed to change. You’re allowed to not have a 10-year plan. And you’re allowed to evolve without explaining yourself to anyone.We also get into:- Why you don’t need to have it all figured out by 25 (or ever)- The pressure of personal branding and why it’s lowkey exhausting- What self-discovery really looks like (yes, including crying in your car with fries in your lap)- A Mindset Minute reminder that being a work-in-progress doesn’t make you any less worthy- And a heartfelt Oliver’s Light reflection on identity, love, and why just being here is enoughThis episode is for anyone in the in-between. The people who are unpacking, evolving, and trying to make peace with the version of themselves that’s still becoming.

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In this raw and real episode of Random Candace Thoughts, I open up about the side of entrepreneurship that rarely gets airtime: when you’re doing all the “right” things, but the money still isn’t there!!

Let's talk about the doubt, the exhaustion, and the moments when it feels like giving up would be easier.

But I also share what’s helped me keep going, why redefining success matters, and how learning in the dark has been just as powerful as any paycheck.

You’ll also hear:

• What no one tells you about online business timelines

• Why comparison will crush your confidence if you let it

• How I'm experimenting with monetization (and what I’ve learned)

• A personal reminder from Oliver’s Light on why presence matters more than profit

  
  

This one’s for anyone in the thick of it. Keep going. It’s not just about money...it’s about becoming!

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Thinking about quitting your job to go full-time as a content creator? Before you make the leap, let me pull back the curtain on the real side of content creation, the stuff no one tells you.I had no idea what I was getting into when I went all-in, and today, I’m sharing the 5 biggest lessons I wish I had known before becoming a full-time creator. From dealing with brand deals and algorithms to burnout and the reality of running a business, this episode is for anyone looking to turn content creation into a career.Key Takeaways:

• Content creation is a business, not just making videos. You’re also your own manager, marketer, and accountant.
• Brand deals take negotiation skills. If you don’t know your worth, you will get underpaid.
• The algorithm is unpredictable, diversify your platforms and income.
• Burnout will happen if you don’t pace yourself. Quality vs. quantity.
• Selling yourself is part of the game, embrace it and own your value.

Oliver’s Light Segment: Honoring my grandson Oliver by sharing what truly matters, our time, our energy, and how we use them.Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1u...Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f...iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/268858041/ YouTube: Random Candace Thoughts    • Random Candace Thoughts  OFFICIAL LINKS:@justtheblendedwells Instagram:   / justamarketingchick  Instagram:   / gardening.with.charlie  TikTok:   / justaflchick  Facebook:   / candace.monicaa  Want to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle...

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Narcissists follow the same playbook; love bombing, gaslighting, control, and manipulation. And when kids are involved, it’s a whole different level of hell.In this episode, I’m sharing my personal story of surviving a 16-year relationship with a narcissist, the lessons I learned, and how you can protect yourself. If you’ve ever dealt with emotional abuse, toxic co-parenting, or a manipulative ex, this episode is for you.What You’ll Learn:- The narcissistic abuse cycle: love bombing, gaslighting, control, and manipulation- How narcissists use children as a tool for control- The reality of co-parenting vs. parallel parenting- How to recognize narcissistic abuse and detach emotionally- Why the best revenge is moving on and protecting your peaceOliver’s Light: In honor of my grandson Oliver, I share a listener’s story about the power of saying a child’s name after loss.If you’re dealing with a narcissistic ex, you are not crazy...no matter how much they try to make you feel that way!Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Amazon Podcasts | iHeart RadioYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts OFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

For 21 years, I dedicated my life to the Air Force. I climbed the ranks fast, I gave everything to my career, and I believed in the system.

But when I needed the system to be fair, it failed me.

In this episode, I’m telling my full story; how I lost my stripes, how my mistakes played a part, and why I’m still fighting for justice today.

I take full accountability for the choices I made, but I also know I was punished far more harshly than others.

This is about leadership, accountability, and the reality of what happens when the military gets it wrong.

In This Episode:

• My journey from fast burner to Chief Master Sergeant
• The challenges of my assignment at Incirlik Air Base
• The mistakes I made and the decisions that led to my downfall
• The investigations—what was fair and what wasn’t
• My fight with the Air Force Board for Correction of Military Records
• How I found strength despite everything

Oliver’s Light – A reminder that even in darkness, there is still hope

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💡 If you’ve ever been in a situation where you were unfairly punished or felt like your voice didn’t matter—I see you. Your story deserves to be told.

If this episode resonates with you, send me a message or share it with a friend who needs to hear it.

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Motherhood, Messiness & Raising Teens...If I could go back and tell my teenage self one thing about motherhood, it would be this: You think you know love, but you have no idea.Raising a teenage daughter is a special kind of challenge—one that reminds you of yourself in the best and hardest ways. In this episode, I dive into the raw, beautiful, frustrating reality of motherhood, reflecting on what I wish I had known back then and the lessons that come full circle now.🔹 The teenage rebellion cycle (yes, we were them once)🔹 The push-pull of parenting—guiding vs. letting go🔹 Love in the messy, unspoken moments🔹 What I would say to my younger self about motherhood & lifeAnd in Oliver’s Light Segment, I reflect on unseen love, the love that exists even when it isn’t acknowledged.👉 What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self about life, love, or parenting? Drop it in the comments!Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:@justtheblendedwells Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community! A place where creators get the support, tools, and real-talk strategies to grow with confidence: https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Ever felt like you had to play a role to fit in? Like the real you wasn’t enough?

I’ve been there! But here’s the truth; when you embrace who you truly are, that’s when everything changes.

In this episode ofRandom Candace Thoughts, I’m diving intowhy authenticity wins every time;in life, business, and content creation.

From my journey in the Air Force to rebuilding my life after a toxic marriage, I’ve learned firsthand that success isn’t about fitting in, it’s about standing out by being yourself!

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

✔️ The pressure to conform & how I held onto my identity in the military
✔️ Leaving a 16-year marriage to a narcissist & rebuilding my confidence
✔️ Why perfection is overrated & how embracing imperfection changed me
✔️ Practical tips for showing up authentically online & in life
✔️Oliver’s Light – A new segment honoring my grandson, Oliver, & sharing positivity

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This is not an episode I ever imagined recording, but it’s one I need to share. On January 29, 2025, my grandson, Oliver, was born sleeping at 32 weeks. 💔There are no words for this kind of loss... only waves of grief, moments of love, and a deep desire to make sure his name is never forgotten.In this episode, I share Ollie’s story, the pain of watching my daughter lose her child, and what I’ve learned about grief; especially what grieving parents need most from the people around them. If you’ve ever wondered what to say (or not say) to someone who has lost a child, I hope this helps.If you or someone you love is going through a similar loss, you’re not alone. Here are some resources that may help:💙 The Compassionate Friends – Support for families after the loss of a child (www.compassionatefriends.org)💙 Postpartum Support International (PSI) – Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support (www.postpartum.net)💙 The TEARS Foundation – Financial and emotional support for families who have lost a baby (www.thetearsfoundation.org)💙 SHARE Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support – Support groups, resources, and community for grieving families (www.nationalshare.org)Oliver was here. He mattered. And he will always be loved. Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community;:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about A place filled with guidance, motivation, collaboration, and understanding from two chicks with years of experience in Digital Marketing.** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored

Ever feel like you don’t belong, even when you’ve worked hard to be where you are? Like someone’s going to call you out as a fraud at any moment? That’s imposter syndrome, and it’s way more common than you think.In this episode, I get real about my own struggles with imposter syndrome; from my military-to-entrepreneurship transition to my first coaching session where I felt completely out of my depth. I’m sharing the mindset shifts and practical strategies that helped me push past self-doubt, take action, and own my space...so you can do the same!What You’ll Learn:- What imposter syndrome really is (and why it’s not proof you’re failing)- How I reframed my self-doubt and started showing up with confidence- The power of tracking small wins (and how it rewires your brain)- Why finding a supportive community is a game-changer- How to take action even when you don’t feel ready- Listen now and take the first step toward believing in yourself. And don’t forget to check out my full article on Bold Journey for even more insights🔗 Read the article here: https://boldjourney.com/meet-candace-wells/Thanks for tuning in! And Make sure you 🎧 listen on these platforms:Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/66G5R1uCes2cuGLmVxAZz9?si=nn88-Y3rQHivTCb82FORjgApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/random-candace-thoughts/id1791622275Amazon Podcasts: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b8f9a1c6-cc67-45e2-9d09-6627a81e0888/random-candace-thoughtsYouTube: Random Candace Thoughts https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVxwJyJc8SSCxhC-hvXgF1U5uRLWe5i3J&si=iTbLynQPdCHSufHnOFFICIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justamarketingchick/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gardening.with.charlie/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justaflchickFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/candace.monicaaWant to know how we learned the skills to start our business? Check it out HERE: https://justaflchick.com Join The Social Circle VIP Community;:https://www.skool.com/thesocialcircle-vip/about A place filled with guidance, motivation, collaboration, and understanding from two chicks with years of experience in Digital Marketing.** This video was not created for children under the age of 13**Affiliate Disclaimer: Some of these links may be affiliate links, meaning if you purchase, we may make a small percentage of the sale. This doesn’t affect you as the buyer, you will not pay more because of an affiliate link.FTC: This video is not sponsored