Great marriages typically don’t just happen, they take work. if you want a great marriage or just a greater marriage, you need to lay the groundwork and that groundwork is rooted in feelings.

Where do you start when a couple tells you that this is the last chance? I start with asking, "Do you despise your spouse or the current state of your marriage?" If it's the latter we can fix that and in this episode we start with the failures themselves.

Being out of work can result in excessive pressure on even a strong marriage. But, if your marriage is struggling, it can lead to its total destruction. In this episode we discuss ways to prevent financial stress from ripping your marriage to pieces.

I want to discuss a touchy topic today because too many couples have no idea how to handle this topic and it is one of the top five areas of tension in a marriage. I am talking about in-laws. All too often the in-laws are at the heart of the failure of a marriage.

We come into a marriage with Expectations that were formed from all kinds of sources. For every Expectation there is a corresponding Reality. Sometimes those two parts are very close together meaning…what we expected is pretty close to what is actually happening. Other times, these two parts are miles from each other and we have a huge gap between them. In this episode we discuss how to close the gap.

The first rule when dealing with Threats to a marriage is...protecting egos and pride is a waste of everyone's time. Threats will kill a marriage and just about any attempt to save a marriage, so they have to be eliminated immediately and completely.

When it comes to opportunities…it all comes down to perspective. When an opportunity presents itself, it can have a positive or a negative impact on the marriage depending on how you perceive and react to it. In this episode we discuss how to identify an opportunity and react to it in a way that will improve your marriage. We also discuss what to do when you miss an opportunity.

Strengths are characteristics, personality traits, habits, etc. that are foundational to the success of the marriage. However, many times couples feel powerless in overcoming or stoping weaknesses. The weaknesses we are talking about here are areas where one or both of the spouses are just not strong. In this episode we discuss how to use both to improve your marriage.

Similar techniques to the turnaround of a company can be applied to the turnaround of a marriage as well. The first step is to stabilize the marriage then assess the marriage. The latter is accomplished using the business tool, S.W.O.T analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats). In this series we apply each component of this business tool to the turnaround of a marriage.

The Biblical love triangle for a marriage includes: the husband, the wife and God. In this episode we discuss what it means to put God in the center of your marriage and how to actually do that.