RAWnchy

Hiiii!! :)))

More raw than -nchy: raw talk on raw life experience.

I share my recent fun fling and the common experience of the “upper limit problem” coined by Gay Hendricks (“The Big Leap” — great book).

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Sharing my recent experiences, I address the questions that arose within:

*How do we move out of shame and into our greatness?

*How do we begin to feel worthy of love?

*How can we choose love over fear?

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I love sharing the realness of the journey whilst extracting the lessons I’ve learned on this unknown ride.

It’s not always magical, but there’s magic in every moment.

Thankful to get to learn by “fucking up” over and over—and having my newfound skill of “self-compassion” in my toolkit so that the journey is more enjoyable.

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A beautiful quote I shared by @morganpommells

“Your triggers are an invitation for your partner to know you more deeply, not a reason for them to love you less.”

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What a journey this life is. Thank god we can choose what we do with it (once we work past all these little gremlins within trying to keep us safe lol).

So fucking proud of you!!!!

Much love,

Hailee <3

HELLO MFERS. Today's episode is with Rinsha Ballani where we talk all about her journey of breaking free from the "traditional" path--from questioning the beliefs of a strict Indian family to breaking up with her fiancee of 5 years--to find her truth. She is one hell of an example of courage and trust within herself + life. / Find her on Instagram at @rinshaballani <3

Enjoy and bessssssitos. <3 

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1:20 // from living for everyone else to living for your own desire

3:20 // listening to (and trusting) the voice within as self responsibility 

7:00 // you don’t have to have it all figured out: taking the leap and having itself figure itself out

8:45 // the truth of who we are is more important than holding onto a relationship out of fear

9:30 // what about strict parents?

11:30 // experiencing god before understanding it

13:08 // ego seeking out parental “approval” + what to do when we don’t get it

19:00 // Rinsha’s family using deceased family members to shame her into covering her body

22:15 // “I’ve gone through so much healing to love my body exactly as she is, I’m not going to let my grandmother’s fear run me”

23:48 // how to break free from parent’s’ beliefs, projections, and shaming

24:33 // “people do the best they can with the tools they have”

26:05 // you were made to be different — how to navigate feeling “different” in society

31:00 // the real spiritual work: leaving room for your “human” self and “negative” emotions

40:00 // the only way to authentic friendships is through being seen

41:25 // being triggered can be a wonderful thing

44:23 // why heartbreak is always worth it

46:30 // one last piece of advice from Rinsha

REVOLUTIONARY SHIT.

I hope you take the time to soak this one in because it truly took me YEARS to understand this ONE missing puzzle piece in the healing journey. Remember, not being fully "over" your ex isn't anything to be ashamed of. I'm with you--it took me a LOOOONG time and pieces of the healing journey seem to come up right when I think I'm done with it. :')

Extending love to you because I know how painful it can be to let go of what once was. I'm proud of you for wherever you're at. Any progress is progress. <3

Besitos, Hailee <3

P.S. you're dope

P.P.S. I'm terrible at asking but if you have the energy in you (and you've found value in this podcast), writing a review (or even just leaving a star rating) really helps this podcast! Seriously, thanks x 100000 <3

Yoooo! I hope this finds you SWELL. I've been on a different wave recently. A smooth af one. And I just wanted to share my little secrets to this newfound inner peace. :) Much love!!!

As mentioned...

Book Recs: The Surrender Experiment -Michael Singer / The Universe Has Your Back -Gabrielle Bernstein / A Gentle Reminder -Bianca Sparacino / Big Magic -Elizabeth Gilbert

Find all here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/haileeschwartzz/list/158BEXWCLP25T?ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d

My insta fav: @the.holistic.psychologist (plus others if ya wanna scroll through my following lolz)

My instas: @haileeschwartzz (chaos, comedy and connection) / @haileetalks (coaching and healing)

Besitos, Hailee <3

YOOOO! SO stoked to share this conversation with y'all. We talk about the highs and lows of the growth journey; the real, the raw, the dopeness and the darkness.

Big S/O to the host DJ Million--real ass dude, thankful to have had the opportunity to connect with him. Hope y'all enjoy!

Besitos, Hailee <3

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Find him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/djmillion_/ (@djmillion_)

Check out his podcast: https://anchor.fm/djmillion

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In this episode, we talk about:

-The confidence to show up as ALL of you; your strength is your vulnerability

-The difference of showing up online vs in person

-Learning growth through real life experience

-Being okay with change; when life asks you to pivot

-The importance of friendship + general connection

-Getting out of the dark times

-Accepting the slow journey

-Realigning with what *truly* matters; breaking out of the habit of people pleasing

If you like me, meet the woman who helped make me: Lyndsay. I could hype this woman up for days--she really is one HELL of a mf boss!!! Lyndsay has been my coach off and on the last couple years and I've had the privilege to pick her brain this episode regarding bossing up, holistic entrepreneurship, growth, and boundary setting.  Everything she says is gold, I swear. :") 

Follow her on insta: instagram.com/lyndsaylee

Listen to her podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-too-much-podcast-with-lyndsay-lee/id1615665608

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Topics discussed:

-stop trying to do it all: focus on your zone of genius 

-getting curious with your thoughts 

-how to know when you're "ready"

-creating a healthy relationship with fear

-the importance of setting boundaries

-business is a spiritual game 

-should I stay or should I go after conflict? 

-questioning society’s idea of a “healthy” relationship 

-Lyndsay’s biggest piece of advice to become an entrepreneur 

Enjoy y'all! 

Besitos, Hailee

It all started in 2019 when I heard the saying of "men are trash" going around. Something about me: I question everything. I remember hearing that and almost wanting to get on board because it was the popular opinion but knowing in my heart that it was BULLSHIT. 

Three years later, now having talked to tens of thousands of men personally, I can confirm my hypothesis of that men are, indeed, not trash. Ya girl is always right anyways ;)

Wanna hear what I think as a woman? Tune into this episode.

Besitos, Hailee <3

DO Y'ALL HERE THE BEEPING?! It's still going as I'm typing this. <3

It's hard to trust yourself when you're so used to toxic dynamics. I have been on a mission to figure out what a healthy relationship *really* means + requires. Today, I share with you my research data of how to create a strong foundation in a relationship. 

Unfortunately, love cannot be bought or fucked good enough to make it last. Fortunately, we're all capable of giving/receiving love. 

Sending y'all love on this journey of creating love.

Besitos, Hailee <3

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0:00 Hailee desperately needs a man + some bitching around 

2:50 Hailee's ADHD calming down, finally

3:45 Things that *don't* necessarily mean it's going to last

13:16 Things that are *probably* great signs of a healthy relationship 

23:44 Bottom line: the conclusion to my research

Hey y'all, coming on here raw (how we like it) to talk about the last year and the creeping feeling of depression + discontentment. Wanted to share my analysis of WHY I've felt this way, reminders to those feeling this way, and what has helped me along this journey.  

Sending y'all love, Hailee <3