Now, as in the days of the apostles, it’s overridingly important for us to invite, to cajole, to jokingly tease someone until he or she says, “Yes, I’ll read the Jesus story with you.” When you sit down to do that, ask them to read a few verses aloud. Then ask them what they mean. When you get to something Jesus says or does, ask what they think. In particular, ask them this question: “Do you think Jesus is trying to be nice?”
Of course not. Jesus doesn’t just “make nice.” That’s the whole point. Nice isn’t nice. Nice isn’t loving. It isn’t true. It’s the illegitimate child of Romanticism, which turned the meaning of the word on its head. “Nice” is a condescending, sarcastic way to say someone is naïve, ignorant, stupid.
So, keep asking, “Do you think Jesus is trying to be nice?” Keep pounding away at that question until they finally get it. Once we rescue Jesus from “nice,” He becomes real in their eyes. Only then can your friend make sense of Jesus’ life, teachings, miracles, crucifixion, resurrection, and ascension.
Right now, Jesus is praying for you to be way more than just a “nice” Christian...and praying for your friend to see Jesus Himself for who He truly is.
This is Luis Palau.