If you’ve ever felt like deleting every dating app, swearing off love, and resigning yourself to “maybe I’m just meant to be alone,” this episode is for you. Truly Eleanor shares her own hilarious (and slightly horrifying) story of the date that pushed her over the edge and how that rock-bottom moment became the turning point that changed everything.

You’ll learn how to process frustration and disappointment without giving up on love, how to regulate your emotions when dating feels impossible, and the exact steps to move from burnout to breakthrough. Dating after 40 isn’t for the faint of heart, but with emotional honesty, self-awareness, and a little intuition, you can transform your “enough is enough” moment into the beginning of something beautiful.

What’s Inside This Episode

• The unbelievable story of Eleanor’s “doctor’s office” first date that nearly ended her dating life for good.
• Why your “I’m done with dating” moment might actually be your biggest breakthrough.
• How to process emotional overwhelm and hopelessness in healthy, powerful ways.
• The journaling exercise that helps you release frustration and reconnect with your heart.
• How to tell if you need a break or a reset in your dating journey.
• Three key pillars to help you regain clarity and confidence: Awareness, Acceptance, and Connection.

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