Shaff and Shay bring the Trauma to Healing series to their show.  Walking the journey as a survior can sometimes be lonely, yet rewarding in how powerful your story can be for someone dealing with these powerful issues.  Our show brings RAW experience and how we can live today to appreciate our past, our healing and where we are as healthy adults in life today.  

Being Vulnerable and sharing the RAW steps of this life transformation Shaff and Shay share the process of the critial steps of working thorugh self-love, worthlessness and getting rid of your false self and allowing others to see you for your true authentic self as a survior.  

Being Vulnerable is taking a chance and sharing their stories is a calling and passion to help others walking a journey that has already been walked by these two amazing strong women.  

Trauma comes in many forms: Sexual Abuse, Physical Abuse, Domestic violence, Medical Injury, Death, Intimate Partner Abuse, Early Childhood Trauma and of course bullying and much more.  

YOU deserve to feel your value in life.  This is REAL RAW talk and Shaff brings a powerful voice of her abuse to survior to her experiences while healing.  

Not Settling- (Give and take), Wasted time, and Needle in a Haystack complete our 2-part series of "Moreness".

Shaffer and Shay bring their own personal Wisdom to the forefront with these topics. 

We Are:

Introducing RAW with Shaff and Shay!

Episode 3

5 takes on “Moreness” ( Episode 4 will talk about the last 3 takes)

Depth in your relationship is important.  We as adults seem to use about 5 emotions:  Happy, Sad, TIred, Pissesd off or Stressed Out.  These are surface-level emotions that don’t give a lot of detail about what a person is feeling.  Digging deep into these primary emotions is important to share.

   2. Not Settling- (Give and take)  Be conscious of the present, you are NOT dating to fill a space, you are dating to add to your life.  You can’t seek from a partner what you don’t give to yourself.  Choose experience, not optimism.

Life Coaching-Becky Shaffer @ [email protected] 

We Are:

The importance of a girl's trip, resetting, no judgment, and just a great time.  We all need those days away from kids, family, and partners to just laugh, be silly, and add bonds that happen so rarely.  

Introducing RAW with Shaff and Shay!

We Are:

Becky Shaffer is a life and fitness coach, Educator, and Author, and Shay Hayes is an Educator and Coach with College and High School experience in which together we bring a different perspective with Real Adult Wisdom from life experiences.

Here, on RAW, we will drop the fake talk and talk about honestly the hard experiences and life lessons we gained from surviving childhood abuse, abusive relationships, cancer, and much more.  We will share with you the work we did to overcome and heal our personal life experiences.

Life is hard at times and together we CAN DO THIS!