Welcome to this episode of Real Ease with Soulnal, where I share my Journey.

People always ask, “How did you become a healer?” Well, let’s rewind.

Born in Singapore, raised in Okinawa—where I went to an American school (not British, despite what my nervous brain blurted out in this episode). Life was all fun and games—literally. Then came Singapore’s school system, where fun went to die. Let’s just say… the adjustment did not go smoothly.

In my Indian (Sindhi) family, resilience wasn’t just encouraged—it was mandatory. Two older sisters, and an older brother, and somehow, I got labeled the black sheep. But looking back? I wasn’t a black sheep. I was a lion who refused to be herded. They say the youngest is a brat, I feel I came to heal the generational trauma of this family, lol.

Then came marriage. Arranged, of course. I told my dad, “I don’t think I’m marriage material.” He blinked. Twice. But touchwood, my mother-in-law turned out to be more than just amazing—so amazing she makes me my morning tea and is an absolute angel. (Mom, I hope you’re listening.)

And then… life threw its hardest punch. My mother passed. My daughter had just left for university, my son was next, and suddenly, I felt completely untethered. The grief was so bad, even my migraines, the 60 Panadols with codeine just to function kind of bad. My husband tried everything—trips to Greece, Istanbul… nada. If there had been a “Buy One, Get One Free” deal on escaping life, I’d have taken it.

Then, a friend told me to read The Journey by Brandon Bays. (I already had it on Kindle, buried under a hundred other “I’ll read this someday” books.) But this time, I actually read it. And just like that, my healing began. No more meds. No more sickness. Just a deep realization that I wasn’t broken—I was becoming.

And the universe? It was guiding me the whole time. Like when I saw an image of Avatar Meher Baba on a white cloth at my mother’s funeral—something I didn’t even understand back then. (More on that later.)

Here’s the thing: healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about remembering who you were before the world told you who to be.

And that’s what I help others do.

So stick around. Because these stories? They’re not just mine. They’re ours.

And if you don’t get what i've shared — just vibe with the episode and see where it takes you