Real Fertility Talk

Send us a text

“Dear Partner…”

Dear partner,

I know you’re trying.
Even if you don’t always know what to say.
Even if you feel completely helpless watching someone you love go through this.

I know you’re scared, too.
Even if you don’t show it. Even if you feel like you can’t show it because you’re trying to be the strong one.

But here’s the thing—this isn’t just happening to one of us. It’s happening to both of us.

And if we don’t talk about it, it will eat away at us quietly.

What I Wish You Knew…

I wish you knew that when I cry after a negative test, it’s not because I’m giving up—it’s because I need a minute to mourn.

I wish you knew that I don’t always need a solution. I just need you to say, “This sucks, and I’m here.”

I wish you knew that I still want to feel close. That sex has started to feel like a job, and I hate that, but it doesn’t mean I’ve stopped needing you.

I wish you knew that I’m grieving things I haven’t even lost yet. Time. Hope. Control.

And I wish you knew that you’re allowed to grieve too.

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk

Send us a text

Things I Wish My OB Told Me Before Trying to Conceive

In episode six of Real Fertility Talk, host Tawny Maya delves into the important information that many individuals wish they had known before starting their journey to conceive (TTC). Tawny discusses commonly overlooked aspects such as the importance of understanding one's body, the significance of getting basic labs done early, and the potential need to consult specialists beyond an OB. She emphasizes the importance of being proactive and advocating for oneself throughout the fertility journey. Tawny also shares a coaching moment and a client story to illustrate key points. Listeners are encouraged to get curious, ask questions, and seek support to navigate their fertility journey effectively.

00:00 Introduction to Real Fertility Talk
00:12 Episode Overview: Things I Wish My OB Told Me
00:41 Common Misconceptions and Frustrations
01:18 Key Insights and Advice
02:31 Real Talk Coaching Moment
03:01 Client Story and Final Thoughts
03:35 Conclusion and Support Resources

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk

Send us a text

The Mental Load of Fertility – It’s Not Just in Your Head

Trying to conceive isn’t just physically demanding—it’s mentally relentless. If you’ve ever felt like your brain has 47 tabs open (and one of them is tracking your ovulation while another is crying in a corner), this episode is for you.

In this raw and validating solo episode, Tauni gets real about the mental load of navigating fertility. From juggling appointments, medications, and endless decision-making—to managing emotions, relationships, and the crushing weight of expectations—it’s a lot. And it’s not just in your head.

✨ In this episode:

• A rant-worthy breakdown of what the “mental load” actually looks like
• Gentle coaching reminders to help lighten the emotional weight
• Tools and mindset shifts that don’t involve 18 apps
• A quiet invitation to explore what true support could look like

You are not broken. You are just carrying more than most people realize. And you don’t have to do it all alone.

🎧 Listen now and share with someone who needs to hear this.
📝 Want extra support? Grab the free TTC Checklist or learn more about 1:1 coaching at RealFertilityTalk.com

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk

Send us a text

In this heartfelt episode of Real Fertility Talk, Tauni Maya dives into one of the most underrated—but absolutely essential—parts of the fertility journey: support. Whether you’re TTC, navigating IVF, recovering from loss, or considering surrogacy, having the right people in your corner can change everything.

Tauni shares her personal experiences with isolation, community, and learning how to ask for help—and what she’s seen from years of supporting others in their journeys.
You’ll walk away reminded that you are not alone, and with some ideas for how to build or strengthen your own support system.

💛 Mentioned in this episode:
– Why emotional support is more than just venting
– How to ask for help (without guilt)
– Tips for finding the right kind of community
– Support through coaching, clinics, friends & partners
– Why “strong” doesn’t mean doing it all yourself

✨ Want more personalized support? Learn more about Tauni’s one-on-one coaching program at www.realfertilitytalk.com

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk

Send us a text

Facing Miscarriages as a Couple
Real Fertility Talk with Tauni Maya

In this deeply personal episode, I sit down with my husband to open up about one of the most heartbreaking parts of our fertility journey—experiencing miscarriages together. We talk honestly about what it was like to navigate grief, guilt, and emotional disconnect, while also trying to support one another through something neither of us could fully prepare for.

From learning how to communicate in the middle of pain, to the silent ways loss shows up in a relationship, this episode is for anyone who's felt alone, misunderstood, or unsure of how to hold space for their partner while healing themselves.

💬 We discuss:

• The emotional impact of miscarriage on both partners
• What helped us feel connected (and what didn’t)
• How men process grief differently
• Coping strategies for couples navigating fertility loss

Whether you’ve experienced miscarriage personally or love someone who has, this conversation is a reminder: you are not alone—and your relationship can survive this.

✨ Tag us @RealFertilityTalk and let us know what resonates. We’re in this together.

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk

Send us a text

The Emotional Journey of Being an Egg Donor

In episode two of Real Fertility Talk, host Tawny Maya shares a deeply personal account of her experience as an egg donor before becoming a mother. She recounts the emotional and physical challenges, the joy of helping families, and the profound impact it had on her life. Tawny discusses common questions about the donation process, its effects, and offers insights into what potential donors and recipients should look for in an agency. This intimate episode provides a heartfelt look into the emotional journey of egg donation and its life-changing outcomes.

00:00 Welcome to Real Fertility Talk

00:10 My Journey as an Egg Donor

01:11 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Egg Donation

02:42 Physical and Emotional Aftermath

04:47 Life-Changing Impact and Career Path

05:51 Frequently Asked Questions

09:55 Choosing the Right Donor or Agency

11:01 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk

Send us a text

In the introduction to 'Real Fertility Talk,' host Tauni Maya, a fertility coach, egg donor, and founder of Babies Made With Love, shares her personal and professional journey. She recounts her experiences with egg donation and the deeply emotional struggles she faced with infertility, including multiple miscarriages. Tani provides an intimate look at her heartbreak and resilience, culminating in the birth of her son in 2023. She started the podcast to create a supportive community, sharing real stories and expert insights about fertility, surrogacy, adoption, and more. Tani emphasizes that this is a safe space for those navigating the path to parenthood, reminding listeners they are not alone in their struggles. The episode encourages sharing, community engagement, and offers hope through persistence.

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk

Send us a text

Welcome to "Real Fertility Talk," the podcast where we dive deep into the heartfelt and often complex journey to parenthood.

Whether you’re facing infertility, exploring surrogacy, considering egg donation, or simply seeking guidance on your reproductive health, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Join us as we share real stories from people just like you—stories of struggle, hope, and resilience. We’ll feature expert interviews with doctors, counselors, and fertility specialists, as well as personal insights from those who have navigated the path to parenthood.

No topic is off-limits here. We’ll tackle the emotional, financial, and medical aspects of fertility, ensuring you have the information and inspiration you need. 

https://www.realfertilitytalk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/realfertilitytalk