This is a tough period as we all are stuck at home due to Covid-19 crisis. As a parent, you have to stay with your parents for the whole day every single day. It can be huge torture and a problem for you. How can you balance between your work and taking care of your kids? How can you have your own space? This week we are going to get the answers from Jil Valenti.

This week we have Zhi Ee with us to share about how to make the best out of your career after graduating from university. She even dived deep into a discussion about the importance of working experience and paper qualifications.

This is the stay at home week due to COVID-19, but we still have an incredible guest with us. He is Edmond Yap. He was a civil engineer, a salesman, a corporate soft skills trainer, an educator and a serial social entrepreneur. In his previous life, he created www.edunation.my with more than 6000 education video contents today that help 160,000 Malaysian students a month. EduNation (now Freeschool) has become Asia’s largest free educational resource. Last year, he was helping with Acton Academy, a school with no homework and no exam. With his experience in education, we would like to discuss the motivation within a student when it comes to studying.

1. Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us by Daniel H. Pink

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2. Don't Shoot the Dog: The New Art of Teaching and Training by Karen Pryor

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3. Influencer: The New Science of Leading Change by Joseph Grenny

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This week we have Dr Elaine with us to share about the communication techniques in a family. She has written the book “Prison Child” which has captured her experiences in coaching the kids and parents and digest it down into simple strategies for parents to use it at home.  

If you’re interested in “Prison Child” book, please visit https://www.dekidz.store/products/bestparentingbook?fbclid=IwAR1SGv3N_ZnKj-AllVIVBBAqkQdvttNrYCVazBo9eElwVXgsl8UnWUZvCZE or follow them on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/prisonchild)  

SHOW NOTES: 

0:11 - Introduction of the guest this week – Dr Elaine 

3:32 – Motivation for writing the book “Prison Child”  

5:23 – We need to be moderate in parenting 

7:34 – Parenting from parent and educator perspectives 

10:25 – The importance of taking care of the emotions of the kids  

16:06 – The message that kids receive when parents are on the phones 

22:27 – What does addiction to phones mean 

24:05 – Why kids don’t see their parents as their role models 

26:27 – What can parents do to make their kids see them as their role models 

29:17 – Western vs Asian Parenting culture 

31:22 – How to communicate better to your kids 

36:38 – The importance of having good communication at home  

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This week we are going to interview someone who is very young and has become a regional manager for De’Emcee. She trains young kids (5-9 years old) to become public speakers. How does she do that? We are going to find out more from her.  If you’re interested in the program, please visit https://www.deemcee.com/ or follow them on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/DeEmceeAcademy/)  

SHOW NOTES:

0:11 - Introduction of the guest this week – Emily 

1:18 – How does she help young kids to be confident and speak on stage  

3:04 - Is confidence nurtured or born nature  

4:14 – Kids model or learn from people around including parents 

5:26 – Why De’Emcee first got started 

9:21 – How does De’Emcee teaching style different from others 

10:34 – How long does it take to progress 

11:30 – Creative challenges of the class 

13:39 – Tips for parents to encourage their kids to think   

17:27 – Activities that can cultivate thinking and confidence  

20:25 – Story of Emily   

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This week we are going to debunk some of the myths we have about parenting including we need to be a perfect parent and the balance between work and children for working parents. You’ll be surprised by some of the things you’ll be finding out in this interview.

If you’re interested in the program, please visit www.tinyurl.com/epdiscovery or follow them on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/exceptional...)

Introduction of the guest this week – LiiChu [0:27]

Kids don’t do what you tell them, but they observe what you’re doing [2:55]

What makes a person a powerful leader [5:02]

How to create a sense of belonging for kids [6:28]

Parents are providing the best they can for the kids but is this what the kids want [15:53]

The challenges of both parents are working [17:11]

How man can come in and help in a family [19:02]

The challenges of working mom is having [20:01]

The environment working parents create for the kids [20:39]

The talk between husband and wife before having kids [24:43]

How to create mutual respect and mutual trust between parents and kids [26:31]

It’s not how much time you spend with the kids, it’s the quality of the time with them [28:30]

How do you make yourself available for kids [29:16]

Comparison with other parents and value instill into your kids [30:59]

How to learn to be a better parent [34:22]

Being curious with your kids [36:45]

Story: How to listen to your kids [39:48]

How to not judge your kids [45:43]

Parents, you’re not alone. There is no perfect parent. [48:00]

How to solve problems together as a family [53:47]

What to do if parents say it’s too difficult or don’t have time for it [55:59]

Importance of the parenting environment [58:12]

Build a better home environment for you to coach your kids [59:12]

Exceptional Parenting Program [1:03:58]

Luke helps people experience breakthroughs from their emotional bottlenecks using the proven method of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and clinical hypnosis. He has conducted over 200 workshops and seminars across 9 countries namely Malaysia, China, Singapore, Russia, Thailand, India, Brunei, New Zealand, and England. His mission is to empower emotionally exhausted people to overcome their emotional bottlenecks and find their happiness. You’re going to learn how to raise your kids without being drained emotionally.    For further information about his consultation or him, please visit https://www.lukebong.com/ or follow them on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/lukebongyt)  

SHOW NOTES: 

Introduction of the guest this week – Luke Bong [0:12] 

What is Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP)? [1:57] 

Unconscious programming in ourselves [4:25] 

The real problem in parenting [5:51] 

Story of a mom and her daughter with depression [8:15] 

Parents have been children before, think from children’s perspective [12:10] 

Authentic parenting [13:14] 

We are similar to our parents [15:45] 

Inner child in us [16:27] 

How to calm yourself when you’re dealing with kids [20:54] 

What and how to anchor yourself [28:02] 

A story of how Coach Webby dealt with a violent kid and his parent [35:04] 

What you can do as a parent [40:51] 

Resilience and grit [42:49] 

The challenges of being a parent [44:43] 

Use failures & mistakes to be teachable moments for your kids [46:24] 

Children are not your priority [49.28]  

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Coach Jason from ProMizzion has coached, trained and led a group of youth and young teenagers to plan, organize, market, execute, and perform a concert that can fit a few hundred people without any involvement from any adults. He is specialized in helping kids to build up their confidence. This week we are going to explore what are the problems facing by both kids and parents. We are going to pick some brains from Coach Jason to understand deeper about confidence and how can we build up our own confidence as well as helping the young ones. We will dive in deeper to explore the role of parents in building confidence and how can parents provide the best environment for kids to grow up to be a confident person. For further information about the programme, please visit www.promizzion.com or follow them on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/ProMizzion/)  

SHOW NOTES: 

Introduction of the guest this week – Coach Jason from ProMizzion [0:33] 

What is ProMizzion? [1:57] 

3 most common problems faced by kids and teenagers nowadays noticed by parents [4:21] 

3 stages of confidence - self-confidence, self-esteem & self-worth  [5:32] 

What and how does ProMizzion do? [8:27] 

Age doesn’t classify you, it’s the ability, capability & skillset [9:51] 

A story about a concert that is organized and run by students [11:36] 

The importance of involving parents to make it works [13:04] 

Motivation is about doing it consistently [15:48] 

Symptoms that are observed and problems that are faced by parents [17:25] 

Why kids nowadays need this compared with previous generations [19:07] 

A decision that parents made a few years ago & now they regret [21:50] 

Students rather share with coaches & not parents, why [23:56] 

How to acknowledge and listen to your kids? [25:19] 

How to train your children to be independent with this one skill? [26:56] 

How to give a compliment to your kids & celebrate with them? [28:01]  

FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA This show is recorded by Turbocharge Learning. We help students to get great results by giving them the study hacks.  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TurboChargeLearning 

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