Real Talk on Aging

Talking about aging parents is one of the hardest conversations families will ever have. But avoiding the conversation about aging parents often leads to confusion, family conflict, and rushed decisions during a crisis. In this episode, Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust break down how to hold the first family meeting about aging parents—without turning it into a fight.

Many families wait until something goes wrong—a fall, a hospital visit, or a sudden health decline—before they start talking about caregiving decisions. By then, emotions are high, siblings disagree, and no one has a clear plan. That’s when stress, resentment, and guilt start to take over.The truth is, the earlier you start the conversation about aging parents, the easier it becomes.

In this episode, we walk through how to start the conversation in a calm, respectful way that keeps everyone focused on the same goal: making sure your parents age safely and with dignity.

You’ll learn how to:

• Start the first family meeting about aging parents without triggering defensiveness
• Get siblings aligned around roles, responsibilities, and expectations
• Identify early warning signs that your parents may need help
• Keep the conversation focused on planning instead of blame
• Avoid the most common mistakes families make when discussing caregiving

We’ll also share real-world examples from decades of working with families navigating aging and caregiving decisions. From difficult conversations about driving and independence to navigating sibling disagreements, this episode offers practical strategies that families can use immediately.

If your parents are in their 60s, 70s, or 80s, this conversation is coming whether you plan for it or not. The families who handle it best are the ones who start early—before stress and crisis force decisions. Because the goal isn’t just to talk about aging. The goal is to protect your family relationships while planning for the future.

Whether you're an adult child starting to notice small changes, a caregiver already feeling overwhelmed, or someone trying to keep siblings on the same page, this episode will give you a simple framework for having the conversation that every family eventually needs.

Driving and dementia is one of the most difficult conversations families will ever face. In this episode of Real Talk on Aging, Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust share practical guidance on how to recognize the warning signs that an aging parent may no longer be safe behind the wheel—and how to have the driving conversation before a crash, injury, or crisis forces the issue. Learn how to spot early red flags, assess driving safety, and approach the topic with empathy instead of conflict.

Drawing from personal experiences, caregiving expertise, and real-life dementia journeys, Dave and Barb discuss why driving represents independence, identity, and freedom for older adults. They explain how to conduct ride-alongs, identify concerning changes in judgment and reaction time, involve healthcare professionals when needed, and build a transportation plan that preserves dignity while keeping everyone safe. Whether you're caring for a parent with dementia or simply noticing age-related driving concerns, this episode provides actionable steps to help you make informed decisions with confidence and compassion.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How to recognize early warning signs that an older adult may no longer be safe to drive
• Why families should address driving concerns before an accident occurs
• Strategies for having productive, compassionate conversations about giving up the keys
• How dementia, aging, vision changes, and slower reaction times affect driving ability
• Transportation alternatives and community resources that can help maintain independence

Don't risk waiting until an accident, injury, or emergency forces the decision. Learn how to identify the signs early, protect your loved one's independence, and navigate the driving transition with confidence and care.

Dementia and Alzheimer’s disease affect millions of families, but most people are unprepared for the emotional, behavioral, and communication changes that come with cognitive decline. In this episode, Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust have an honest conversation about dementia caregiving, early warning signs, communication breakdowns, family dynamics, and how to support aging parents with dignity and compassion. You’ll learn the difference between normal aging and dementia, how Alzheimer’s progresses, and practical ways families can better navigate memory loss, confusion, aggression, and grief.

Through deeply personal stories and expert insight, this episode explores what it really feels like to “lose someone before they’re gone” and why dementia is often called a family disease. Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust discuss the seven stages of Alzheimer’s, how different types of dementia present differently, how to communicate without creating shame, and why staying present matters even when recognition fades. Whether you’re caring for a parent with dementia, worried about cognitive decline, or planning ahead for your family’s future, this conversation offers practical guidance, emotional reassurance, and actionable caregiving strategies.

• Learn the difference between normal aging and dementia symptoms
• Understand how Alzheimer’s and other dementias progress over time
• Discover practical communication strategies for dementia caregiving
• Recognize subtle behavioral and cognitive warning signs early
• Learn how families can preserve dignity, connection, and independence

Don’t risk waiting until a crisis to start the conversation. Learn how to recognize the signs of dementia early, support loved ones with compassion, and prepare your family for the road ahead.

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Senior fall prevention isn’t just about avoiding accidents—it’s about preserving independence, confidence, and quality of life. In this episode of Real Talk on Aging, senior fall prevention takes center stage as hosts Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust unpack why even one fall can signal a turning point. If you’re caring for aging parents—or noticing changes yourself—this conversation will help you understand the risks, the warning signs, and how to stay ahead of them.

Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust explore the physical, emotional, and environmental factors behind senior falls, from muscle loss and mobility challenges to fear, isolation, and overlooked home hazards. They break down common myths (like “it’s no big deal if they weren’t hurt”) and offer practical, real-world strategies to prevent falls before they happen. Whether you're supporting a loved one or planning for your own future, you’ll walk away with a clearer understanding of how to reduce risk, build confidence, and create a safer, more supportive environment for aging well.

What you’ll learn:

• Why one fall significantly increases the risk of future falls

• How fear and loss of confidence accelerate physical decline

• The most common (and overlooked) fall risks inside the home

• Practical ways to improve strength, balance, and daily mobility

• How families can respond supportively without creating shame or resistance

Don’t risk waiting until a fall becomes a crisis—learn how to recognize the signs early and take action to protect independence and quality of life.

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Early signs of dementia often don’t look serious—they look explainable. In this episode, Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust break down the early signs of dementia families ignore and why recognizing patterns early can change everything. If you’ve ever wondered whether “it’s just aging” or something more, this conversation will help you spot the difference before it’s too late.

On this episode of Real Talk on Aging, we draw from decades of caregiving and clinical experience to unpack the subtle emotional, behavioral, and cognitive shifts that often go unnoticed. From repeated small memory lapses to withdrawal, fear, and broken routines, they explain how isolated incidents become meaningful patterns—and why families often dismiss them. You’ll learn how to move from passive concern to proactive care, have better conversations with loved ones, and know when it’s time to involve professional support.

What you’ll learn:

• How to distinguish normal aging from early warning signs of dementia

• The emotional and behavioral changes families often overlook

• Why patterns matter more than one-off incidents

• How fear, denial, and family dynamics delay action

• When and how to step in, start conversations, and seek help

Don’t risk missing the signs that matter most. Learn how to recognize changes early and take action with clarity and confidence.

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Are you prepared for an aging parent crisis before it happens? Aging parent planning is the conversation most families avoid—until a fall, a health scare, or a sudden change forces decisions fast. In this episode of Real Talk on Aging, you’ll learn how to avoid an aging parent crisis, recognize risks inside the home, and start planning before “everything seems fine” turns into something urgent.

Hosted by Dave Ritterling and Barb Faust, this episode breaks down what an aging parent crisis actually looks like—from hidden dangers in the home and overlooked warning signs to the emotional and family dynamics that delay action. Drawing on decades of experience in senior care, Dave and Barb share how to spot risks early, navigate tough conversations with empathy, and create a proactive plan that keeps your loved ones safe while preserving their independence.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Identify hidden safety risks inside your parents’ home

• Recognize early warning signs before a crisis happens

• Start the aging conversation without causing resistance

• Create a simple 5-year plan for aging parent care

• Navigate family roles and avoid conflict during decision-making

Don’t risk waiting for a crisis to make decisions for you—learn how to plan ahead, reduce risk, and support your aging parents with confidence.

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Real Talk on Aging reveals why families fall behind the aging curve—and how to stay ahead before a crisis hits. In this episode of Real Talk on Aging, you’ll learn how subtle changes in your loved ones signal bigger shifts, and why waiting for “something major” can cost you time, options, and peace of mind. If you’ve ever felt unsure about what to look for or when to step in, this conversation gives you the clarity and confidence to act early.

Hosted by Dave Ritterling, SVP Global Operations at Visiting Angels, and Barb Faust, RN and Director of Program Development at Visiting Angels, this episode breaks down the reality of the aging curve—from overlooked warning signs and family denial to the importance of building a care team before emergencies happen. You’ll hear real examples from decades of experience in senior care, along with practical ways to recognize change, navigate tough conversations, and support your loved ones without overreacting. Whether you’re seeing your parents every day or only a few times a year, this episode will help you prepare for what’s ahead and protect the people you love.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Recognize early signs you’re already behind the aging curve

• Spot subtle changes most families overlook

• Navigate family dynamics and denial around aging

• Build a care team before a crisis forces decisions

• Support independence while reducing risk

Don’t risk waiting for a crisis to make decisions for you—learn how to stay ahead of the aging curve and take action with confidence.

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Real Talk on Aging is a podcast about the moments, decisions, and emotions that come with caring for an aging parent or loved one.

Hosted by Barb Faust, RN and Director of Program Development at Visiting Angels, and Dave Ritterling, Senior Vice President of Global Operations, the show brings thoughtful conversations with people who understand the realities of caregiving and the opportunity it creates to show up with compassion and presence.