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Real Talk episodes

June 15 Ep. 151 - How To Lead Your Family - Dr. Joel Beeke
Most men would say they would die for their wives and children. But will they live for them?
In this episode, we're joined by author and theologian Dr. Joel Beeke to discuss what biblical headship actually looks like. In a culture where leadership is often misunderstood, avoided, or distorted, we explore God's calling for men to lead their families with humility, conviction, and Christ-like love.
From the frame work of prophet, priest and king, we chat about holy habits, marriage, discipline, and family leadership. This conversation offers both practical wisdom and gospel hope for husbands and fathers.
To learn more be sure to pick up a copy of Dr. Beeke’s book How To Lead Your Family here! And be sure to check out his Family Worship Bible Guide too!
0:00 — What Does It Mean to Be a Good Leader?
18:00 — Holy Habits
24:00 — Avoiding the Ditches
28:00 — Love and Discipline
33:30 — Personal Holiness
52:00 — Wives & Husbands
1:10:00 — Encouragement
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1 hr 15 min
June 01 Ep. 150 - Are We Giving God Our Leftovers? - Rev. Hank Van der Woerd
What does true generosity actually look like? Have we reduced giving to percentages and leftovers, while missing the heart behind it all? In this episode, we’re joined by Rev. Henk Van der Woerd to discuss the biblical role of deacons, the ministry of mercy, and how generosity reflects the very character of God. From church leadership to stewardship and practical care, this conversation challenges the way we think about money, service, and the life of the church.
To listen to Rev. Van der Woerd’s full presentation referenced in this episode click here: https://www.sermonaudio.com/sermons/118251929244334
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1 hr 23 min
May 18 Ep. 149 - The Kindness of God in Guilt & Conviction - Matt King
What do we do with guilt? Is conviction something to fear—or could it actually be one of the ways God lovingly draws us back to Himself?
In part two of this conversation with Pastor Matt King, we talk honestly about sin, confession, repentance, and the difference between shame and guilt. We unpack why guilt, when understood rightly, isn’t meant to crush us, but can be a gift of God’s kindness that leads us back into relationship with Him.
We also explore what it means when we don’t feel convicted, the importance of confession in the Christian life, “gospel gaps” between what we believe and how we live, and how the Church is meant to walk with one another through sin with both truth and grace.
0:00 - How are shame and guilt different?
8:00 - Dealing with guilt
14:00 - Shame and guilt proneness
29:00 - What if we don’t feel convicted?
38:00 - Confession and repentance
48:00 - Counseling and the Church
56:00 - Corporate confession
1:02:00 - Sharing vs. burdening
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1 hr 10 min
May 04 Ep. 148 - Jesus Took On Shame So You Don't Have To - Matt King
Shame can be one of the most powerful forces shaping our lives and most of the time, we don’t even realize it.
In this episode, we go back to Genesis 3 to see where shame begins, then unpack how it still works today, distorting our thoughts, and changing how we see God, ourselves and others.
But shame doesn’t get the final word. Joined again by fan favorite,
Pastor Matt King We talk about how Jesus steps directly into our shame, takes it on Himself, and what it actually looks like to start “shaming shame.”
Stay tuned for part 2 of this conversation on guilt, conviction and confession of sin… you won’t want to miss it.
0:00 Intro
7:00 Genesis 3
11:00 Can shame be redeemed?
13:15 How shame works
35:00 Jesus enters our shame
56:00 How to shame shame
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1 hr 11 min
April 20 Ep. 147 - Lead with Intention or Lose the Mission - Peter Greer
Mission drift is real and whether we realize it or not, it can happen to even the best of organizations and people.
In this episode, we’re joined by Peter Greer, author of the book Mission Drift, to talk about how drift happens and how to avoid it. Even with the best intentions, it’s easy to lose focus over time—and often, you don’t realize it until you’re already off course.
Through real examples, we unpack the subtle warning signs of mission drift, the influence of culture, and how leadership decisions, people, and priorities can quietly shift your direction.
This conversation is about staying intentional—whether you’re leading something or simply trying to stay grounded in what matters most. To learn more, be sure to pick up a copy of Mission Drift.

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1 hr 13 min
April 06 Ep. 146 - Life Together: Cultivating a Ministry of Small Things - Dr. Reuben Bredenhof
We are all called to minister to others and the most meaningful ministry often happens quietly, in the small acts we often overlook. Joining us for this conversation is CRTS Professor and the author of The Ministry of Small Things, Dr. Reuben Bredenhof. We discuss the temptation to do big things, how we can cultivate a ministry of small things and the effects this kind of work has both on the one who receives and the one who gives.
If you want to learn more we highly encourage you to pick up a copy of The Ministry of Small Things here!
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1 hr 22 min
March 23 Ep. 145 - Redeeming Productivity: Are You Making the Most of Your Time? - Tim Challies
Everyone’s busy. Packed schedules, constant pressure, always something next. But the real question is—are you actually doing what matters?
In this episode, we talk about what it means to redeem your productivity—not by cramming more into your day, but by stewarding your time with purpose. If you’re someone who prides yourself on being busy, this might challenge you.
Joined by blogger and author of Do More Better, Tim Challies, we walk through principles of how to be productive and enjoy true rest in a way that stewards all of life for the glory of God and the good of others. You don’t want to miss it.
If you want to learn more, be sure to pick up a copy of Do More Better here!

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55 min
March 09 Ep. 144 - Backsliding: How to Guard Against Complacency - Dr. Mark Jones
Backsliding: Are We Presuming on God’s Grace?
Are we drifting in our faith without even realizing it? In this episode, Dr. Mark Jones joins us to tackle the quiet danger of backsliding—what it is, why it happens even in churchgoers, and how complacency can creep into our spiritual lives. From the subtle signs like pride, prayerlessness, and neglect of Scripture, to modern distractions and the love of the world.
This episode dives into what real growth, perseverance, and daily repentance look like, offering both conviction and hope as listeners are challenged to examine their hearts and run to the grace of Christ.
If you want to learn more pick up a copy of Dr. Jones’ book: The Pilgrim’s Regress
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58 min
February 23 Ep. 143: The Sobering Conviction & Comfort of Hell - Dr. Will den Hollander
Can the reality of Hell actually be comforting and how should it inform the way we live and share the Gospel?
In this part two in our series on eternity, Tyler and Dr. Will den Hollander discuss what hell is and how it displays the character of God. They also get into some quite emotional questions such as can God send a child to hell? How bad is it? And why doesn’t God just create the elect?
This episode will challenge your thinking, confront your assumptions, and show how the reality of hell comforts and soberly convicts us in our love for the lost.
BE SURE TO LISTEN TO PART ONE OF THIS SERIES ON ETERNITY: EP. 141 - THE COMFORT HEAVEN BRINGS TO EARTH ON YOUTUBE, SPOTIFY, APPLE OR PODBEAN.

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1 hr 22 min
February 09 Ep. 142 - How to Fight Fair & Forgive Well - Dr. Tim Lane
Is conflict always bad? And do Christians always have to forgive? In this episode of Real Talk, we take an honest look at conflict and forgiveness—two realities every Christian faces because every Christian is in relationships.
We’re joined by Dr. Tim Lane, biblical counselor and author of Relationships, to explore what distinguishes godly conflict from ungodly conflict, what real forgiveness actually looks like, and how the gospel shapes our relationships—both personally and in the church.
Conflict doesn’t have to destroy relationships. And forgiveness is more than just words.
To learn more, be sure to pick up a copy of Dr. Lane's book written with Paul Tripp: Relationships: A Mess Worth Making.

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1 hr 26 min