Do I really want peace? Or do I just want someone to absorb the chaos I refuse to deal with?

And to the women: If you’re constantly exhausted by loving him, it’s not love — it’s labor. You deserve peace too.

From high-risk surgeries to the emotional weight of unrealistic beauty standards, we ask: What are we really sacrificing to feel seen, accepted, and flawless? We also unpack how internalized racism shows up in cosmetic choices and the pressure to conform — especially in communities of color.

Age Gaps & Double Standards: The Truth. flip it. The women is older, now what? Let's talk about the double standard in age gap relationships.

Women don’t go to the gym to be watched. That’s it

If you’re in a gym lifting weights, sweating through reps, and pushing your limits — your focus should be on your form, not on female fashion.

Videos of grooms smashing cake in their bride’s face ...That’s disrespect. Lets get into it.

If they’re laughing at you, not with you — distance is peace. People don’t like to see you happy because it reminds them they aren’t.Instead of doing the inner work, they project but you don't have to put up. Lets get into it.

Sometimes you gotta let them hit rock bottom. It's not your job to save people who won't listen. What do you do when the people you love keep choosing suffering — and ignoring you because they don’t respect your advice?

Let’s get into it.