This conversation may not be palatable for everyone, but then again...it's me. Britt East and Jonathan Beal educated me, enlightened me, and challenged me in this one. We unpacked the underlying reason why many straight women feel "safe" with gay men, and why it's a troubling and inaccurate assumption. Britt, an award-winning author and gay man, shares cultural truths about some gay men that shocked me (which is hard to do!). Jonathan, a self-kindness Coach and bisexual man, explains the stereotypes he's had to face and how it impacts his desire to seek out relationships. Britt and Jonathan discussed the role that porn has played in their lives, and I share how I've used it in my personal AND professional life! As usual, we get real...really real. 

Check out Britt East at https://www.britteast.com/

Check out Jonathan at https://www.jonathanbeal.com/

Check out Britt and Jonathan's Podcast at https://www.notgoingquietly.today/   (Check out Episode 5 when I was THEIR guest!)

In this episode, I speak with Valerie Walsh, Author of her own memoir, "Shattered to the Core". She talks about the loss of her mother to suicide, her cancer prevention decision of getting a double mastectomy, and her ups and downs with alcoholism. Valerie gets real about how her mental, physical, and substance use struggles have impacted her life, and how she uses physical fitness to make peace with her past, and reclaim her future. 

Connect with Val on IG: @valeriejwalshauthor and check out her website at https://valeriejwalsh.com/

Dr. Laurie Mintz is the Queen of Cliteracy! No, seriously - she wrote a book about it, "Becoming Cliterate". In this episode, we discuss myths around how cis women orgasm (or don't). Squirting, female ejaculation, and more! I learn about the term "pillow princess", and how I am the exact OPPOSITE of one. I also share my own orgasm journey, and the bullshit I had to UNlearn along the way. Enjoy!

Dr. Laurie's website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/

Dr. Laurie's IG account: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/

Dr. Laurie's FB account: https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurieMintz/

Dr. Laurie on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/drlauriemintzcom/

Back by popular demand! Fantasy episodes are "mini episodes" where I read the anonymously submitted fantasies I've received. From the vanilla to the kinky and taboo! These episodes are my favorite! 

Do you want to submit yours? You can! Click HERE!

Dr. Joe Kort explains all about heteroflexibility in men. That is, straight men who have sex with men...but aren't necessarily gay or bi! We dive deep in this one - as usual. Dr. Joe and I discuss the "hamburger eating brain" vs. the "ass eating" brain (super clinical right?). We also talk about anal and nipple play on straight men. Oh - I can't forget when time stood still and Dr. Joe anointed me as something other than a straight woman (don't ask...just listen to the episode).  Dr. Joe's info: IG: @drjoekort Podcast: https://joekort.com/podcast Website: www.joekort.com

Cam Fraser, Australia's leading men's sex coach, drops some gems in this episode! From his toxic "college locker room talk" days, to growing into the enlightened sexual man he is now, Cam vulnerably shares his journey. Although all genders can (and do) benefit from his work, men will undoubtedly feel seen and heard when Cam speaks about his experiences. Cam gives us a glimpse into what it's like to coach with him, and the process he takes men through when exploring anal play for the first time. We share laughs and candid breakthroughs about our personal views of masculinity, and how we continue to work on shaping them. 

To find out more about Cam (or work with him), head to www.cam-fraser.com. You can also find Cam on instagram at @thecamfraser.

To find out more about me, head to www.realtalkwithnina.com or find me on IG at @ninarealtalk

Cam Fraser, Australia's leading men's sex coach, drops some gems in this episode! From his toxic "college locker room talk" days, to growing into the enlightened sexual man he is now, Cam vulnerably shares his journey. Although all genders can (and do) benefit from his work, men will undoubtedly feel seen and heard when Cam speaks about his experiences. Cam gives us a glimpse into what it's like to coach with him, and the process he takes men through when exploring anal play for the first time. We share laughs and candid breakthroughs about our personal views of masculinity, and how we continue to work on shaping them. 

To find out more about Cam (or work with him), head to www.cam-fraser.com. You can also find Cam on instagram at @thecamfraser.

To find out more about me, head to www.realtalkwithnina.com or find me on IG at @ninarealtalk

What happened when I decided it would be a good idea to ask one of the biggest ethical porn producers to come on my podcast? You'll find out in this episode! Jacky St. James is a writer, producer, and director of ethical porn; one of the big guns in the industry to say the least. She's the creative director at Bellesa (www.bellesa.co), and creates content for Sweet Sinner as well. I also tried to convince Jacky that my thick thighs, mom tummy, cellulite, and c-section scars, would be the next best thing to happen in the porn industry. A more authentic "MILF" genre, if you will. 

In this episode, we talk about: 

and more...

You can find more about me at: www.realtalkwithnina.com or on IG at @ninarealtalk

Find out more about Jacky St. James at www.jackystjames.com and see her work on www.bellesa.co

What happened when I decided it would be a good idea to ask one of the biggest ethical porn producers to come on my podcast? You'll find out in this episode! Jacky St. James is a writer, producer, and director of ethical porn; one of the big guns in the industry to say the least. She's the creative director at Bellesa (www.bellesa.co), and creates content for Sweet Sinner as well. I also tried to convince Jacky that my thick thighs, mom tummy, cellulite, and c-section scars, would be the next best thing to happen in the porn industry. A more authentic "MILF" genre, if you will. 

In this episode, we talk about: 

and more...

You can find more about me at: www.realtalkwithnina.com or on IG at @ninarealtalk

Find out more about Jacky St. James at www.jackystjames.com and see her work on www.bellesa.co

Karin Freeland is my guest on this one (of course), and we talk about our personal opinions on the importance of penis size (it may shock you). We also brave the storm and share some pretty awful anal sex debacles. I give practical advice on how to PROPERLY approach anal sex, and decrease the chances of embarrassing moments. Karin shares a story of being in the shower (alone) and somehow venturing into uncharted "territory" by accident. She barely makes it through the story, and we wheeze laugh as usual. Good luck with this one...

Find me at www.realtalkwithnina.com or on Instagram @ninarealtalk

Find karin at www.karinfreeland.com, on Instagram @karinfreeland, and check out her new memoir all about her VAGINA at www.theinsandoutsofmyvagina.com