In this episode of Real Talk with Tati, I open up about what it feels like to realize you’re ordinary—and why that’s not a bad thing. I talk honestly about battling self-doubt, struggling to trust God, and feeling too small for the calling He’s placed on my life.

Through the chaos, questions, and overthinking, I’m learning that God doesn’t ask us to be extraordinary—He shows His strength through our weakness. I share how faith can feel stressful, how fear clouds our calling, and how the enemy attacks our identity, but also how God uses regular, everyday people to do kingdom work in powerful ways.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re enough or questioned if you’re on the right path, this episode is for you. Tune in for honesty, reflection, and a reminder that even “little soldiers” are part of a big war—and God equips every single one of us for our assignment.

In this episode, I get real about something we don’t talk about enough: the quiet seasons. Not the storm, not the warfare, the peace. The moments when life is so calm that you start wondering, “God… am I still in Your good graces? Did I fall off? Is this peace or complacency?”

I open up about the way God answered an unspoken prayer and led me straight to the book of Malachi, a book I didn’t even know I needed. Through conviction, honesty, and a whole lot of grace, God reminded me that spiritual health requires maintenance, not perfection… and that peace is not the absence of His presence.

We talk about:

• Drifting from God when life feels “too good”

• The danger of offering God half-hearted worship

• Why complacency creeps in when trials calm down

• How Malachi calls us to faithfulness, repentance, and excellence

• Why God deserves our best — not our leftovers

• And how the Lord lovingly draws us back when we drift

Scriptures referenced include:

• Malachi 1–4

• Matthew 7:21

Devotional Scriptures:

• James 4:8

• Psalm 139:23–24

If you’ve ever felt empty in the middle of peace, or realized you’ve been giving God the “leftovers” of your worship, this is your episode. God is calling us higher — not out of fear, but out of love. He always answers the heart that seeks Him, even when the prayer isn’t spoken out loud.

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In this episode, we get real about one of the biggest battles many of us face—fear. We talk about what it means to see God through a lens of fear and how that distortion can keep us from truly experiencing His peace, blessings, and love. From facing spiritual warfare to finding rest in God’s promises, we reflect on how He’s been transforming our hearts, teaching us to breathe, trust, and walk boldly in faith. We also open up about relationships, healing from fearful attachment, and learning to accept joy and goodness without guilt.

This episode is raw, transparent, and full of gratitude for God’s grace. We’re learning to embrace peace, step into purpose, and walk in authority without fear.

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In this heartfelt episode of God Speaks, Will You Listen?, we get real about what happens when we drift from God’s Word. When we’re not reading our Bibles daily, it’s easy to feel empty, lost, and disconnected from the light of Christ. But when we stay rooted in Scripture, our lives begin to glow with peace, clarity, and purpose. Together, we talk about spiritual warfare, staying consistent in prayer, and why daily communion with God is truly our “daily bread.”

✨ This episode is a reminder that we can’t live without the Word of God—it’s not just guidance, it’s life itself.

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In this powerful opening to Purity in a Perverse Culture, Melissa Gary shares her journey from addiction, abuse, and destructive relationships to healing, restoration, and newfound identity in Christ. Her testimony highlights God’s power to redeem brokenness, restore purity, and bring lasting joy through surrender, prayer, and walking in true intimacy with Him.

Content Warning: This episode contains content that may be disturbing for some listeners. Listener discretion advised.

(CSA, Abuse, Drugs, and Addiction)

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We talk a lot about sin like it’s only the “big” stuff — the Ten Commandments level. But in reality, anything that grieves the Holy Spirit is sin. Delayed obedience? Excuses? Ignoring what God asked us to do? That’s sin too.

In this episode of Real Talk with Tati, titled “In My David Era”, we get real about how frustrating it can feel to love God deeply and still struggle with discipline, obedience, and consistency. We wrestle with free will, the weight of temptation, and the reality of repentance — not just as words, but as action.

Romans 1:1832 shares a heavy truth — that when we repeatedly choose sin, God will sometimes let us have what we’re chasing, even though it leads to destruction.

Yet even in our weakness, God’s mercy is greater. Like David, we can cry, repent, praise, fall short, and still be called. Still chosen. Still loved. His trail markers remind us we’re not too far gone, and His strength carries us when we’re weak.

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This was initially going to be a personal audio diary, but in the middle of it, I felt it was important to share this very real and vulnerable moment. Be blessed!

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In this unfiltered bonus episode, I share the real thoughts and fears I battle when being vulnerable on this platform. From the fear of sabotage and judgment to the calling I feel from God to tell the truth — this episode is a raw offering of obedience.

Yes, I’m scared. Yes, I’ve thought about deleting everything. But God reminded me: this is not about me — it’s about freedom, healing, and glorifying His name.

I will not shut up. I will not stop testifying. I will not stop loving God.

Are you ready to let God use your testimony — flaws and all — to bring someone else to freedom?

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