REALationship

In chaotic times, our relationships usually take the biggest hit. We react without processing, we lash out, we speak from frustration...you know all the typical recipes for disaster. Over the past 12 months, we have experienced periods of extreme chaos that have led us to today's discussion - one that we only recently came to really understand: the importance of building FOUNDATIONS that lift you through the chaos and even allow you to grow WITHIN it. So, let's chat.

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Are you sick of hearing the phrase "LIVE YOUR BEST YEAR YET?" I am. This year we want to share with our REALationship fam how to lay the foundation for not just a powerful year, but a powerful relationship, powerful family, powerful life. Will it be your best year yet? Maybe. Will it be your most INTENTIONAL year yet? YES, it definitely can be...and that is what we dive into today! Tag along as we run you through setting up your most intentional year YET so you can thrive not just in 2020 but for years to come. Let's go!

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We're backkkk...and we decided to get right into the nitty gritty as we tackle one of the biggest shifts in our marriage: going from cheerleader to critic of the person you once "admired" most. It's messy...and it happens without you meaning to, but HOW do you handle this shift? How do you re-learn to communicate and see again with a grace-filled lens? Well, we are still working it out, but let's chat about it. Dive in with us for this little REALationship chat.

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This week we were out in New Mexico with friends, and a topic came up...what do you do when your spouse is no longer doing the things he/she did when you first started dating? You know the things that ATTRACTED you to them? Today we break down the feeling you get on the days when you may find yourself saying: THIS ISN'T WHO I MARRIED.

Just because we are in a relationships doesn't automatically mean that we get sprinkled with magic fairy dust that makes us joyfully stop wanting to do all the things we want to do. So what do you do in these moments of "selfish ambition"? Today on the podcast, we unpack what it looks like to "do what we want" in relationship and how to handle it when you're significant other decides to do what they want. This one is fiery! Don't miss it.

Help...this doesn't feel like help! Have you ever been "helped" by someone and in the end it just didn't feel very helpful? Or have your ever tried helping someone and they didn't seem to receive it very well? What happens when that person is your significant other? Today we talk about what help in relationships, marriage, dating and more sometimes looks like...and how to make it, well, more helpful! We carry today's episode out with a serious debate on something significant in everyone's childhood...so stick around for it!

We love social media. But one thing about it really bothers us...especially when it comes to relationships. Can you guess it? Grab a glass of bourbon or a beer and join us for today's episode where we breakdown how to "do" and "not do" social media in relationships. Stick around for the end as Matt bashes Maria's favorite television program...

I love a good fight...and sometimes, well most of the time, it's not the healthiest thing to love. But, today we talk about the difference between arguments and disagreements...why both aren't necessarily "bad"...and how to navigate when you're in too deep. We are coming to you live from Eagle Univesity (EagleU.org) - the country's most impactful and most comprehensive youth leadership and success program. Don't miss it!

Episode 6 doesn't disappoint. We recorded this episode in an Uber after a flight into NYC last week. If you are going through a difficult season as a couple or family, this is a must listen. We are living through today's episode right now. We are exploring the uncertainty of being parents of a special needs kiddo along with a major move and evolving businesses....oh yeah and a newborn. Can you relate to any of that? It's short, but packed with punches. Let's do this! Um...and we end the episode with Disney princesses...so you know it's a good one!

Do you know who you're sleeping with? Listen along as we dive into the nitty gritty of how to really know the person you keep waking up next to. This one could change your relationship, it changed ours...well actually it started it all! Don't miss it. For more information on Love Maps, check out The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gettman of the Gottman Institute.