Ever feel like you’re always the safe space for men—but not the one they choose fully?
This episode of Reality Inspyrd with @ashleyinspyrz dives deep into the unconscious patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional unavailability, half-love, and energetic burnout.
Ashley opens up about her own experiences and the soul-level realizations that came from years of playing the rescuer.
You’ll hear the truth about:
✨ Why emotional intimacy can feel safe—but secretly drain you
✨ How early conditioning shapes the partners you attract
✨ The real reason “chemistry” sometimes comes with chaos
✨ What it takes to attract from WHOLENESS, not wounding
If you’re done being the healer, the fixer, or the fallback girl… this one’s for you.
Come for the realization, stay for the liberation 💥
⏱ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Welcome to Reality Inspyred
00:12 Are you attracting emotionally unavailable partners?
06:39 When chemistry comes with chaos
16:44 Feeling better, looking better, radiating joy
17:00 What is your energetic signature?
17:11 Bliss, fun, liberation, and transformation
17:19 Seeing the pattern and stepping into your highest self
17:43 What do you truly want in a relationship?
18:02 The gift of holding space and compassion
18:24 You’re not my job — clearing space for true love
18:42 Stepping into divine masculine partnership
18:52 Magnetism of wholeness and true eroticism
19:00 Cultivating fully reciprocal love
19:16 Your magic is your gift — own it
19:29 Pride in choosing differently
19:51 Resetting your baseline and broadcast
20:12 Unconditional love and support
20:26 Shoutout to Mateo
20:40 Formation Energetics — aligning your energy
21:00 Clearing out what no longer serves
21:12 Sponsor: Womanizer Duo2 (womanizer.com)
21:31 The beauty of self-pleasure and self-love
21:55 How to try the Womanizer
22:02 The magic of energy co-creation
22:19 You are perfect and whole — attract from there
22:30 Catching the pattern before it repeats
22:37 Walking away from misaligned connections
23:09 Choosing a partner who is emotionally available
23:35 Why this message matters now
23:46 A personal dating insight
24:00 Cleaning up unconscious energetic signatures
24:08 Recognizing the pattern before it happens
24:15 Who are you attracting right now?
24:23 Even the grocery store can bring surprises
24:38 Staying open without over-giving
24:44 Walking away from time-wasters
24:58 Stop tolerating less than you deserve
25:06 Sponsor shoutouts and gratitude
25:23 Clearing unavailability from your field
25:33 Rewriting your energetic signature
25:50 Aligning with the greatness of all
25:58 Welcoming in this activation
26:03 The power is in your hands
26:19 Time to take your energy back
26:28 Light it up, clear it out
26:34 You are divine — own your purpose
26:45 Closing words — be lit, inspired, and transformed
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