We sometimes think that we are chosen to go on a first date or we choose others for this purpose based on meeting someone for potential relationship. However, in some cases there are other agendas besides this that are not so obvious. We are going to take some time here and examine some of the root causes for people that may want to go out on the first date. Also, we're going to look at some practices that may help men when it comes down to escalating the first date provided that there's chemistry and a sense of harmony between the two parties.