What happens when you stop trying to be the “right one” and start showing up as you?

In this powerful conversation, Sherry sits down with Sarah Van Eck—author, mindset coach, and founder of Stop Hating Dating, Start Being YOU—to talk about the emotional toll of dating, the trap of self-fixing, and how midlife women can reclaim confidence without apology.

✨ If you’ve ever found yourself burnt out from dating, shrinking to be accepted, or feeling like love is something you have to earn—this episode is for you.

🔥 What We Explore in This Episode:

• Why “being chosen” isn’t the prize—it’s the trap
• The pressure women feel to fix themselves before they’re “ready” for love
• How dating burnout shows up emotionally and physically
• Reframing self-worth beyond romantic validation
• Tools to reconnect with your voice, values, and vision

👩‍💻 About Sarah Van Eck:

A former business optimization consultant turned mindset coach, Sarah uses NLP and lived experience to help women untangle fear, perfectionism, and codependency—especially when it comes to dating. Her book Stop Hating Dating is a blueprint for becoming unapologetically YOU in love and in life.

💜 Midlife is not the end of your love story—it’s the beginning of your most honest chapter.

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📅 Full episode drops:

🎥 YouTube: Wednesday, July 2 at 7 PM EST

🎧 Audio platforms: Wednesday July 2 at 9 AM EST

🔗 Connect with Sarah Van Eck

Instagram | @sarahselfworth

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