I obeyed God and it almost cost me everything. But in the process, it saved everything.In this episode we close out our first month with the one thing that ties it all together. Obedience. Every breakthrough we ever had came on the other side of something God told us to do that made no sense. Every breakdown happened when we chose our feelings over His instructions.We are talking about what happens when God tells you to forgive and you do not feel like it. When He tells you to confess and your flesh says take it to the grave. When He tells you to serve and nobody is serving you back. When everything in you disagrees with what God told you to do.Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6, Jeremiah 17:9, 1 Samuel 15:22-23, James 4:17, Galatians 6:9, Hebrews 11:8Four takeaways:Name the thing God told you to do that you have not done yet.Stop waiting to feel ready. Readiness is not a feeling. It is a decision.Obey in one thing this week. Faithfulness in one thing leads to faithfulness in everything.If the one thing is trust, get the blueprint.This is episode 4 of our new format. Four weeks. The cost. The covenant. The testimony. The obedience. Phase 2 starts next week.RESOURCES:Grab our FREE guide "The 5 Lies the Enemy Uses to Destroy Your Marriage"https://go.reclaimedrestoredmovement.com/the-5-liesBook a Free Clarity Callhttps://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/rrpmmThe Trust Rebuilding Blueprint ($29)https://buy.stripe.com/00w14naxG8M89AR47c1VK0yWebsite: reclaimedrestoredmovement.comFollow us:IG: @reclaimedandrestoredmarriageTT: @reclaimed.restoredFB: Reclaimed & Restored Marriage MovementVictory is Non-Negotiable.Kicking the Enemy Out. Moving God In.Come Here. We Will Walk With You. We Know The Way!

Nine months. I turned my life around. Jesus transformed me. I was in recovery. I had a sponsor. My pastor was working me through discipleship. Never got caught. Nobody knew. I could have taken this to my grave.

But I told her anyways.

Tonight we tell you what happened next.

This is not a polished testimony. This is the version with the scars still visible. If your marriage just got hit by betrayal or if you are the one hiding something right now, stay all the way to the end. Because what nobody tells you about betrayal is what the other side looks like. And we are living proof that the other side exists.

Scripture: James 1:14-15, Psalm 51:6, Malachi 2:14

Three takeaways:

For the one who betrayed: every day you hold the secret is the day the enemy holds you. Confession is terrifying but the man who walked out of that conversation was freer.

For the one who was betrayed: you did not cause this. What happened is not a reflection of your worth. It is a reflection of someone else's brokenness.

For the couple on the other side: your story is someone else's lifeline. The enemy's greatest victory in betrayal is isolation. You break that lie by opening your mouth.

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You've thought it. Maybe you've even said it out loud.

"I think I married the wrong person."

It usually hits at 2AM. Or in the middle of a fight. Or when you see another couple laughing together and you can't remember the last time you and your spouse had a real conversation that wasn't about bills, kids, or problems.

But what if that thought isn't from God? What if it's a strategy? What if the enemy planted a question in your heart to get you to abandon an assignment?

In this episode, Derek and Geisha Butler unpack the lie behind 'I married the wrong person' and replace it with the covenant truth that changes everything.

You'll learn:

- Why 'the one' is a myth and how it's destroying marriages

- The difference between choosing the right person and becoming the right spouse

- How the enemy uses comparison to assassinate your covenant

- What covenant really means and why it makes 'the wrong person' irrelevant

- What God actually said about the person you married

If you've ever doubted whether you chose right — this episode was made for you.

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Everybody wants a better marriage. Nobody wants to pay what it costs.

In this episode, we break down the three real costs of a marriage that actually works. The cost of dying to yourself. The cost of staying when leaving is easier. And the cost of rebuilding trust brick by brick.

This is not theory. We lived every bit of this. Infidelity. Confession. Rebuilding. 18 months of daily faithful actions before my wife could breathe again. We share it all.

Scripture: Luke 14:28, Galatians 2:20, James 1:2-4, Nehemiah 2:17-18

Four takeaways you can apply tonight:

Count the cost honestly. What has your marriage cost YOU?

Identify what you have not died to yet. Name it. What you do not name you cannot kill.

Stop measuring your marriage by feelings. Measure it by faithfulness.

If you are rebuilding trust, get the blueprint.

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𝗡𝗘𝗪: The Trust Rebuilding Blueprint ($29). 4 stages, real timelines, scripts for both spouses, 30 daily actions. Instant download.

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FREE GUIDE: The 5 Lies the Enemy Uses to Destroy Your Marriage

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Come Here. We Will Walk With You. We Know The Way.