On this week’s episode of Reclaiming Bossy, we’re joined by sex and relationship therapist Chantal to answer the questions our community is sent in by our listeners. The awkward ones. The quiet ones. The ones you might not say out loud.
We talk about sex, shame, confidence, solo pleasure, porn, hookup culture, desire changes, communication, condoms, consent and everything in between. This is honest, grounded and judgement free. If you’ve ever felt confused, behind, insecure or just curious about your sex life, this episode is for you.
WHAT WE COVER
• What sex and sexology actually mean
• Solo sex and self connection
• Shame around desire
• Body confidence and performance anxiety
• Orgasm and desire difficulties
• Porn and media expectations
• Dating in your twenties
• Communication and consent
• Condoms, contraception and sexual safety
• Rapid fire most Googled sex questions
TIMESTAMPS
00:01:00 - what is sexology?
00:02:00 - how did you get into it?
00:05:00 - what do you wish everyone knew?
00:06:00 - solo sex
00:09:00 - reclaiming our pleasure
00:12:00 - the backpack
00:13:00 - the secrecy
00:18:30 - the wheel of consent
00:22:00 - what is chemistry?
00:27:00 - comparison and social media
00:31:00 - myth busting
00:36:00 - gadgets
00:47:00 - condoms
00:50:00 - stealthing
00:56:00 - rapid fire questions
CHANTAL’S LINKS
Things mentioned:
https://thepelvicpeople.com/collections/all-products/products/ohnut-depth-limiting-rings
https://calexotics.com/inspire-silicone-dilator-kit-5-piece-set/
https://uberlube.com/collections/our-products
https://www.wheelofconsent.org/about
Chantal’s Website: https://chantalgautiertherapy.com
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