If you have ever been in a relationship, where your partner was gaslighting you, you know just how frustrating and horrible it is to be made to feel like you are crazy and you are the problem all the time. But this is a common technique among abusers and manipulators and red flag individuals. They want you to admit that you are the only one with a problem and that it’s always your fault in someway. Gaslighter’s will never take accountability or responsibility for any fault or error. Join us this week to learn more. If you have questions or would like to reach out to us you can do so at: [email protected]

This one is obvious, or is it? Is addiction a red flag you should run from or work through? Listen in to find out.

Anger management is a real thing. In this episode, we talk about the emphasis on the management part of anger management. Everyone gets angry, but it’s how we manage and control and utilize that anger that makes it a red flag or not. Tune in to learn more.

Dater beware: Narcissists are toxic, abusive, and do not care about others who do not benefit them. We want to help you avoid this flag at all costs. If you’d like to take the quiz featured in this episode, click the link below. https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/NPI/1.php

Have you ever gone shopping for a car? Or any major purchase? Do you know how the salesman will always tell you that you have to act fast or you will lose out on the deal. That is what the blitz flag is all about. It’s all about getting you into a committed relationship as fast as possible so that leverage can be used against you. Join us in this weeks episode to learn more about how do identify and avoid this type of person.

Before any sort of physical contact with romantic intentions starts with a dating interest begins, know your line, don’t allow that line to be crossed. And if your date bases the worth of your relationship on what you’ll give them physically, they are toxic and a Red Flag individual who you should avoid at all costs.

A person who is always the victim and only sees the world as stacked against them and blames everyone else for their failures, is a toxic and dangerous person to be with. They are poison to the soul and will never be satisfied with their life and will not allow you to be satisfied with yours.

Everyone is human, and everyone makes mistakes. One of the most important attributes we need to look for another’s, and demonstrate within ourselves as the ability to allow grace and forgiveness for others. When we are with someone that puts another person in a box of all they do is bad or all they do is wrong just because of one mistake is a huge red flag. Have any experiences like this? Reach out to us through email @recover [email protected] or through our Instagram @ recoveringyou.podcast

It’s important for you to understand what makes you laugh and feel free and happy, and what makes you feel embarrassed or vulnerable or exposed or humiliated. And the beginning stages of starting today is the best time to communicate these things as the situation’s arise. You never need to feel bad about being made to feel bad.

We have been given emotions to help us navigate through life to help us discern where there might be danger, where we feel most connected, where we feel most safe, where we need to protect ourselves or others. For some reason, so many people think that they need to give their emotions over to the person. They are in a relationship with as a sign of trust, or Love. At no point should we ever allow someone else to be in charge of our emotions. This is a common tactic for control and abuse and needs to be pointed out and identified as a red flag. Listen in to get more details.