Red Light Talks

Have you ever had a vivid dream that you still remember from childhood? Dreams may be just our subconscious coming alive at night to act out metaphors and symbols. My grandmother discusses her fascination with dreams, nightmares, strangest dreams, predictive dreams, and our dream journal. We also talk about strange messages that she has gotten in the past. Whether or not you dream at night or believe in signs, this is a grandmother's perspective episode that you do not want to miss!

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My grandmother talks about compatibility in relationships, reasonable comprises, walking away when necessary, a family's influence on a relationship, and stereotypes about closed-minded people from different regions. Two very different generations discuss dating and experiences being raised in the south. How does dating now differ from her generation? How do our generation's experiences in society shape our opinions and perspectives? Is it more about the place or the people in the place? The conversations featured in this episode are even deeper and more interesting than those featured before.

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Jay Felix from the Nappi & Jay podcast joins Red Light Talks to chat about relationship mistakes, getting into future relationships, the right approach for showing how much you like a person, and hesitancies for commitment. As they like to say on Nappi & Jay, “Let’s get it crackin’”. Enjoy the bloopers at the end. Check out Nappi & Jay podcast on Apple Music or Spotify for the most entertaining content on the internet and check out my blog at http://alongstoryshort.org. https://www.nappiandjay.com https://open.spotify.com/show/64lFj13KjVvAD5tAhFiqBt?si=CJnMUhdVTqa0wPMsTr7JvA

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There's nothing like the moment you have a great "ah ha" moment and actually document it on a voice memo with your phone. The number of times I have forgotten the things about relationships that I swore I learned my lesson about are priceless. This is the reason for this episode. Enjoy a series of good dating advice I forgot existed in my voice memos from the past. Emotions make us stupid. Listen to yourself when you have rational epiphanies. Enjoy!

A summary of a self-help book about cheese that gave me perspective on how overthinking can be a good thing at times. Who Moved My Cheese? And The Power of Habit are both books that spoke the same message to me. How to move on when your expectations ended up being the cause of your heartbreak and other life lessons.

My high school and college on and off enemy, Bethany, joins to talk about friend groups, toxic friends, memories about drama from HS and college, and more. Lessons learned the hard way about friends who aren't actual friends, social climbers, blow up arguments, apologies, and growing apart from friends. 

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The story of a divorce after 30 years of marriage, reflections on past experiences, self-sabotage, happiness, and advice to her past self - featuring my Grandmother. How do relationships differ for my generation compared to her experience in past decades, why do we do the things we say we don't want to do, and how can we look back on hard times with appreciation?

An Interview with my Grandmother on dating, red flags, commitment, marriage, and heartbreak. Listen to her perspective on why men are the way they are, what to look for in a husband, the most important things in marriage that no one will tell you, why we ignore red flags right in front of us, relationship lessons learned the hard way, and what to do when you wind up with a broken heart. Trust me, you need to stop taking advice from ONLY people your own age (on some topics at least).

A deep conversation about things we wish we'd known were not as important as they seemed when we were younger. What we wish we could go back and tell our younger selves in hard moments, things we learned in high school and college, and more. Listen to my favorite guest, Matthew Blackmon, talk about our pasts and get real about all the things we have learned through experience about friends, relationships, and general life.