My grandmother joins Red Light Talks for another amazing conversation about how our ego can harm our relationships and attract us to toxic people. We discuss how emotions are a good thing and a bad thing at times, how some people are overly emotional and others are anti-emotional, and how emotions can be used as a subconscious manipulation tactic to try to hang on to people we know are about to harm our ego and are not good for us in the long run. From childhood trauma affecting our development, being raised by parents who never show emotions, hidden anger, and trusting your gut when you feel a relationship is moving too fast, this episode is relatable and relevant! Enjoy the wise and wonderful Jo share her advice yet again!

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Have you ever had a vivid dream that you still remember from childhood? Dreams may be just our subconscious coming alive at night to act out metaphors and symbols. My grandmother discusses her fascination with dreams, nightmares, strangest dreams, predictive dreams, and our dream journal. We also talk about strange messages that she has gotten in the past. Whether or not you dream at night or believe in signs, this is a grandmother's perspective episode that you do not want to miss!

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My grandmother talks about compatibility in relationships, reasonable comprises, walking away when necessary, a family's influence on a relationship, and stereotypes about closed-minded people from different regions. Two very different generations discuss dating and experiences being raised in the south. How does dating now differ from her generation? How do our generation's experiences in society shape our opinions and perspectives? Is it more about the place or the people in the place? The conversations featured in this episode are even deeper and more interesting than those featured before.

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A summary of a self-help book about cheese that gave me perspective on how overthinking can be a good thing at times. Who Moved My Cheese? And The Power of Habit are both books that spoke the same message to me. How to move on when your expectations ended up being the cause of your heartbreak and other life lessons.

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My high school and college on and off enemy, Bethany, joins to talk about friend groups, toxic friends, memories about drama from HS and college, and more. Lessons learned the hard way about friends who aren't actual friends, social climbers, blow up arguments, apologies, and growing apart from friends. 

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The story of a divorce after 30 years of marriage, reflections on past experiences, self-sabotage, happiness, and advice to her past self - featuring my Grandmother. How do relationships differ for my generation compared to her experience in past decades, why do we do the things we say we don't want to do, and how can we look back on hard times with appreciation? 

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An Interview with my Grandmother on dating, red flags, commitment, marriage, and heartbreak. Listen to her perspective on why men are the way they are, what to look for in a husband, the most important things in marriage that no one will tell you, why we ignore red flags right in front of us, relationship lessons learned the hard way, and what to do when you wind up with a broken heart. Trust me, you need to stop taking advice from ONLY people your own age (on some topics at least).

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