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Welcome to our first episode discussing what we believe are the 6 Topics Couples Argue About in Marriage. The first topic we cover today is: How to Respond to the Lack of Attention and Affection in Marriage.

So have you ever had feelings of anger, hurt, frustration, and loneliness when your spouse seemed unwilling or unable to give you attention and affection? Have there been times when you even resorted to begging for your spouse's attention and affection? When experiencing a lack of affection, many couples get stuck in conflict and isolation because they don't know how to name and talk about their feelings without blaming the other.

We believe this episode will help you navigate towards a more fulfilling and deeper connection with your spouse and ultimately reduce the conflict that leaves you exhausted and alone. 

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But first, as promised...

Here's the link to our free eBook: Our Top 5 Tips to Improve Communication Now!

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Are you like many couples who long to put an end to constant arguing? In marriage, we ALL face the daily challenge of preventing conversations from turning into conflict. When we allow conflict to become a daily occurrence, we develop destructive communication habits that can impact the entire family. 

Today we talk about how to replace those destructive communication habits with proven tools that can produce more peace, respect, and connection in your marriage. We also discuss the two motivating forces that bring about real change in behavior. If you are interested in changing daily arguments into healthy conversations and stopping the negative habits of emotional escalation and relational disconnect, this episode is for you! We know you will get a ton of hope and encouragement by joining us today.

It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!

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Today we talk about an experience we had while out to dinner with friends. One of the couples was celebrating their wedding anniversary,  which made the moment "ripe" for meaningful discussion about marriage. The question we threw out to the table of six was, "What are the top one or two 'pro tips' you can offer us for staying emotionally, spiritually, and physically connected?" Wow, did we get a few great nuggets!

If you are like most couples who experience short periods or sometimes long seasons of feeling disconnected, you will want to hear what our friends had to offer! We think you will get a ton of encouragement to pursue your spouse and the Creator of marriage.

It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!

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We are inundated with magazine articles, YouTube videos, TV commercials, and even podcasts about the importance of self-care... but what about Couple-Care?  The lack of Couple-Care is the reason Stuart and I frequently hear couples say, "We can't really explain it, we got busy with life, and now our sense of real connection and partnership has gone away!"

Well, here's what we know to be true: couples who are intentional about caring for their relationship will recognize when the connection is "slipping," and take action!

Today we discuss how the connection in our own marriage started slipping, what the signs were, and what we did to "fix it!" Our story may not exactly be your story, but we know you will relate to how easy it is to allow the day-to-day busyness to distract you from cultivating a marriage full of love and connection. A mutual commitment to Couple-Care is the answer to creating a fulfilling marriage in the midst of a busy life! 

It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!

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Let's face it, arguments between spouses occur way more than most couples would like to admit. The question is whether or not the argument crosses the line into being hurtful or destructive. We have all behaved (out of escalated emotions) in ways that make us wish we could have a "do-over!"

Today we discuss a PLAYBOOK that will not only help you avoid those hurtful interactions but also help you grow in your ability to regulate your emotions. If taken seriously, these strategies have the potential to cultivate a deeper connection between you and your spouse; one that has never been experienced before! They will also help you live a more emotionally mature version of yourself! 

It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!

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Have you ever noticed that oftentimes conflict in your marriage is fueled by stress? If you are like many couples, the answer is "yes" to this question.  Stress is a common thread that all people share, and it can become very destructive in marriage. So what can you do about it?

Today we discuss how stress can dramatically impact the "day-to-day" in marriage by fueling unnecessary conflict. We also discuss how unmanaged stress will ultimately impact your personal well-being for the worse! Of course, we won't leave you hanging without some proven strategies for successfully navigating stress with your spouse and getting back to the "best version of yourself and marriage!"

It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!

We hope you enjoy this episode!   

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So why is Grace and Forgiveness so Scandalous? It's the most unnatural act of humankind, and goes against almost every fiber in our body! Yet, we are all starving for the freedom, peace, restoration, and joy that only Grace and Forgiveness can give. 

Today we talk about what grace and forgiveness look like in relationships and why it is truly the pathway to a deeper, safer, and more intimate marriage. We also discuss why so many of us are "stuck" in ungrace and unforgiveness, which fuels a life of loneliness, resentment, and hardship. We believe this episode is the most important topic we have ever delivered or will ever deliver!

Thank you for joining us today. May you be blessed with the freedom to bring grace and forgiveness to a world full of ungrace and unforgiveness.

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Do you remember in the story Snow White and the  Seven Dwarfs the Evil Queen became angry when the mirror answered her question with THE TRUTH? Apparently, the Evil Queen was not interested in the truth that could help her become the best version of herself! 

Today we talk about what it means to "hold a mirror up in front of our spouse" for the purpose of having the most intimate relationship possible (and, not to mention, remarkable personal and relational growth). We also talk about some of the reasons why attempting such an intimate act of having those "deeper" conversations ends in pushback, anger, resentment, defensiveness, and withdrawal.

As you will hear in this episode, it's important to continue to grow your marriage so that "looking in the mirror" becomes commonplace! Although those deeper conversations can and will be difficult, the potential outcome can be deep friendship, security, connectedness, and creating the best version of yourself!

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So have you ever "punched up" a particular dish you are serving with your secret sauce, those ingredients that would take your meal from ho-hum to spectacular? Marriage can sometimes seem ho-hum and in need of some secret sauce! If this is your marriage, you have two options... 1) Learn to live in a marriage that falls painfully short of the connection, energy, companionship, and joy you once experienced or hoped for, or 2) Decide to change old habits and create that "secret sauce" that will change your marriage story into a life of authenticity, true partnership, and intimacy. 

Today we will share those ingredients that we have found to be our secret sauce, and invite you to add a few more (ingredients) of your own! You will hear practical, yet profoundly powerful actions to take that will redefine how you do the "marriage journey" together!

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Do you ever find yourself expending a ton of physical and emotional energy on tasks that don’t  really seem to satisfy the desires of your heart and soul? Maybe you're that person who is constantly responding to the demands that pop up throughout the day instead of dedicating time to pursue your passions or calling. If so, you probably end up like many people: frustrated, tired, hurried, and unfulfilled. The good news is there is something you  can do about it!

Today we talk about how to change the "old script" of allowing life's urgencies to hijack the joy and peace that can only come by living out your true calling. It's what we call, "focusing on your North Star." So what is your North Star? It's the people, work, and places (to name a few) that you are called to love and care about! Is it possible to follow that North Star most days? Absolutely! 

Join us today on this episode to do a short self-assessment, and discover new ways to live out your authentic life. It's what we call “God's Best!”

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