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  • Weeds and Wheat

    Welcome to the Sixteenth Week in Ordinary Time!

    This week we're introducing a new element to the podcast! Every Sunday, I will introduce the week with a little (5 min) explanation of the week's theme and we'll tie everything together on Saturday evening. Each daily podcast can still be listened to independent of the theme; this is just an added bonus of those of you that like to tie it all together with a little bow! Enjoy!

    This week's theme is Weeds and Wheat! A deep look at the things that bring us life and the things that choke the life in us.

    3 min
  • July 18, 2020 - Saturday of the Fifteenth Week in Ordinary Time
    Reading 1MI 2:1-5
    Woe to those who plan iniquity,
    and work out evil on their couches;
    In the morning light they accomplish it
    when it lies within their power.
    They covet fields, and seize them;
    houses, and they take them;
    They cheat an owner of his house,
    a man of his inheritance.
    Therefore thus says the LORD:
    Behold, I am planning against this race an evil
    from which you shall not withdraw your necks;
    Nor shall you walk with head high,
    for it will be a time of evil.
    On that day a satire shall be sung over you,
    and there shall be a plaintive chant:
    “Our ruin is complete,
    our fields are portioned out among our captors,
    The fields of my people are measured out,
    and no one can get them back!”
    Thus you shall have no one
    to mark out boundaries by lot
    in the assembly of the LORD.
    GospelMT 12:14-21
    The Pharisees went out and took counsel against Jesus
    to put him to death.
    When Jesus realized this, he withdrew from that place.
    Many people followed him, and he cured them all,
    but he warned them not to make him known.
    This was to fulfill what had been spoken through Isaiah the prophet:
    Behold, my servant whom I have chosen,
    my beloved in whom I delight;
    I shall place my Spirit upon him,
    and he will proclaim justice to the Gentiles.
    He will not contend or cry out,
    nor will anyone hear his voice in the streets.
    A bruised reed he will not break,
    a smoldering wick he will not quench,
    until he brings justice to victory.
    And in his name the Gentiles will hope.
    Reflection Questions
    What do you plan on your couch?
    Do you speak of Jesus' work in your life?
    How are you sharing your relationship with Jesus to others?
    Prayer
    God, reconcile my heart to yours.
    3 min
  • July 17, 2020 - Friday of the Fifteenth Week in Ordinary Time
    Reading 1 IS 38:1-6, 21-22, 7-8

    When Hezekiah was mortally ill,

    the prophet Isaiah, son of Amoz, came and said to him:
    “Thus says the LORD: Put your house in order,
    for you are about to die; you shall not recover.”
    Then Hezekiah turned his face to the wall and prayed to the LORD:

    “O LORD, remember how faithfully and wholeheartedly

    I conducted myself in your presence,
    doing what was pleasing to you!”
    And Hezekiah wept bitterly.

    Then the word of the LORD came to Isaiah: “Go, tell Hezekiah:

    Thus says the LORD, the God of your father David:
    I have heard your prayer and seen your tears.
    I will heal you: in three days you shall go up to the LORD’s temple;
    I will add fifteen years to your life.
    I will rescue you and this city from the hand of the king of Assyria;
    I will be a shield to this city.”

    Isaiah then ordered a poultice of figs to be taken

    and applied to the boil, that he might recover.
    Then Hezekiah asked,
    “What is the sign that I shall go up to the temple of the LORD?”

    Isaiah answered:

    “This will be the sign for you from the LORD
    that he will do what he has promised:
    See, I will make the shadow cast by the sun
    on the stairway to the terrace of Ahaz
    go back the ten steps it has advanced.”
    So the sun came back the ten steps it had advanced.

    GospelMT 12:1-8

    Jesus was going through a field of grain on the sabbath.

    His disciples were hungry
    and began to pick the heads of grain and eat them.
    When the Pharisees saw this, they said to him,
    “See, your disciples are doing what is unlawful to do on the sabbath.”
    He said to the them, “Have you not read what David did
    when he and his companions were hungry,
    how he went into the house of God and ate the bread of offering,
    which neither he nor his companions
    but only the priests could lawfully eat?
    Or have you not read in the law that on the sabbath
    the priests serving in the temple violate the sabbath
    and are innocent?
    I say to you, something greater than the temple is here.
    If you knew what this meant, I desire mercy, not sacrifice,
    you would not have condemned these innocent men.
    For the Son of Man is Lord of the sabbath.”

    Reflection Questions

    If you cried out to the Lord as Hezekiah did, what would God promise you?

    Do you understand Jesus' phrase, "I desire mercy, not sacrifice."?

    Is your house in order? Are your priorities in order?

    Prayer

    Lord, have mercy on me while I work to make myself worthy of Heaven.

    4 min
  • July 14, 2020 - Memorial of Saint Kateri Tekakwitha, Virgin

    Reading 1 IS 7:1-9

    In the days of Ahaz, king of Judah, son of Jotham, son of Uzziah,

    Rezin, king of Aram,
    and Pekah, king of Israel, son of Remaliah,
    went up to attack Jerusalem,
    but they were not able to conquer it.
    When word came to the house of David that Aram
    was encamped in Ephraim,
    the heart of the king and the heart of the people trembled,
    as the trees of the forest tremble in the wind.

    Then the LORD said to Isaiah: Go out to meet Ahaz,

    you and your son Shear-jashub,
    at the end of the conduit of the upper pool,
    on the highway of the fuller’s field, and say to him:
    Take care you remain tranquil and do not fear;
    let not your courage fail
    before these two stumps of smoldering brands
    the blazing anger of Rezin and the Arameans,
    and of the son Remaliah,
    because of the mischief that
    Aram, Ephraim and the son of Remaliah,
    plots against you, saying,
    “Let us go up and tear Judah asunder, make it our own by force,
    and appoint the son of Tabeel king there.”

    Thus says the LORD:

    This shall not stand, it shall not be!
    Damascus is the capital of Aram,
    and Rezin is the head of Damascus;
    Samaria is the capital of Ephraim,
    and Remaliah’s son the head of Samaria.

    But within sixty years and five,

    Ephraim shall be crushed, no longer a nation.
    Unless your faith is firm
    you shall not be firm!

    Gospel MT 11:20-24

    Jesus began to reproach the towns

    where most of his mighty deeds had been done,
    since they had not repented.
    “Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida!
    For if the mighty deeds done in your midst
    had been done in Tyre and Sidon,
    they would long ago have repented in sackcloth and ashes.
    But I tell you, it will be more tolerable
    for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you.
    And as for you, Capernaum:

    Will you be exalted to heaven?

    You will go down to the nether world.

    For if the mighty deeds done in your midst had been done in Sodom,

    it would have remained until this day.
    But I tell you, it will be more tolerable
    for the land of Sodom on the day of judgment than for you.”

    Reflection Questions 

    How would you describe your faith?

    If you spoke to God face-to-face today, would he say you are being exalted in Heaven or going down to the nether world?

    Where do you want to spend eternity?

    Prayer

    Lord, help me. 

    4 min
  • July 13, 2020 - Monday of the Fifteenth Week in Ordinary Time
    Reading 1 IS 1:10-17

    Hear the word of the LORD,

    princes of Sodom!
    Listen to the instruction of our God,
    people of Gomorrah!
    What care I for the number of your sacrifices?
    says the LORD.
    I have had enough of whole-burnt rams
    and fat of fatlings;
    In the blood of calves, lambs and goats
    I find no pleasure.

    When you come in to visit me,

    who asks these things of you?
    Trample my courts no more!
    Bring no more worthless offerings;
    your incense is loathsome to me.
    New moon and sabbath, calling of assemblies,
    octaves with wickedness: these I cannot bear.
    Your new moons and festivals I detest;
    they weigh me down, I tire of the load.
    When you spread out your hands,
    I close my eyes to you;
    Though you pray the more,
    I will not listen.
    Your hands are full of blood!
    Wash yourselves clean!
    Put away your misdeeds from before my eyes;
    cease doing evil; learn to do good.
    Make justice your aim: redress the wronged,
    hear the orphan’s plea, defend the widow.

    Gospel MT 10:34-11:1

    Jesus said to his Apostles:

    “Do not think that I have come to bring peace upon the earth.
    I have come to bring not peace but the sword.
    For I have come to set
    a man against his father,
    a daughter against her mother,
    and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
    and one’s enemies will be those of his household.

    “Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me,

    and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me;
    and whoever does not take up his cross
    and follow after me is not worthy of me.
    Whoever finds his life will lose it,
    and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.

    “Whoever receives you receives me,

    and whoever receives me receives the one who sent me.
    Whoever receives a prophet because he is a prophet
    will receive a prophet’s reward,
    and whoever receives a righteous man
    because he is righteous
    will receive a righteous man’s reward.
    And whoever gives only a cup of cold water
    to one of these little ones to drink
    because he is a disciple–
    amen, I say to you, he will surely not lose his reward.”

    When Jesus finished giving these commands to his Twelve disciples,

    he went away from that place to teach and to preach in their towns.

    Reflection Questions

    What are you offering God today?

    What, if anything, stands between you and God?

    Do you defend God’s truths or society’s?

    Prayer

    Holy Spirit, guise my actions and motivations. 

    4 min
  • July 10, 2020 - Friday of the Fourteenth Week in Ordinary Time
    Reading 1 HOS 14:2-10

    Thus says the LORD:

    Return, O Israel, to the LORD, your God;
    you have collapsed through your guilt.
    Take with you words,
    and return to the LORD;
    Say to him, “Forgive all iniquity,
    and receive what is good, that we may render
    as offerings the bullocks from our stalls.
    Assyria will not save us,
    nor shall we have horses to mount;
    We shall say no more, ‘Our god,’
    to the work of our hands;
    for in you the orphan finds compassion.”
    I will heal their defection, says the LORD,
    I will love them freely;
    for my wrath is turned away from them.
    I will be like the dew for Israel:
    he shall blossom like the lily;
    He shall strike root like the Lebanon cedar,
    and put forth his shoots.
    His splendor shall be like the olive tree
    and his fragrance like the Lebanon cedar.
    Again they shall dwell in his shade
    and raise grain;
    They shall blossom like the vine,
    and his fame shall be like the wine of Lebanon.

    Ephraim! What more has he to do with idols?

    I have humbled him, but I will prosper him.
    “I am like a verdant cypress tree”—
    because of me you bear fruit!

    Let him who is wise understand these things;

    let him who is prudent know them.
    Straight are the paths of the LORD,
    in them the just walk,
    but sinners stumble in them.

    Gospel MT 10:16-23

    Jesus said to his Apostles:

    “Behold, I am sending you like sheep in the midst of wolves;
    so be shrewd as serpents and simple as doves.
    But beware of men,
    for they will hand you over to courts
    and scourge you in their synagogues,
    and you will be led before governors and kings for my sake
    as a witness before them and the pagans.
    When they hand you over,
    do not worry about how you are to speak
    or what you are to say.
    You will be given at that moment what you are to say.
    For it will not be you who speak
    but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.
    Brother will hand over brother to death,
    and the father his child;
    children will rise up against parents and have them put to death.
    You will be hated by all because of my name,
    but whoever endures to the end will be saved.
    When they persecute you in one town, flee to another.
    Amen, I say to you, you will not finish the towns of Israel
    before the Son of Man comes.”

    Reflection Questions

    Are you stumbling or walking in God’s path?

    What is God trying to say through you today? 

    Do you trust that following God‘s path for you and doing the work he asks of you will result in happiness beyond your current belief?

    Prayer

    Lord, help me to see your path.

    4 min
  • July 7, 2020 - Tuesday of the Fourteenth Week in Ordinary Time
    Reading 1 HOS 8:4-7, 11-13

    Thus says the LORD:

    They made kings in Israel, but not by my authority;
    they established princes, but without my approval.
    With their silver and gold they made
    idols for themselves, to their own destruction.
    Cast away your calf, O Samaria!
    my wrath is kindled against them;
    How long will they be unable to attain
    innocence in Israel?
    The work of an artisan,
    no god at all,
    Destined for the flames—
    such is the calf of Samaria!

    When they sow the wind,

    they shall reap the whirlwind;
    The stalk of grain that forms no ear
    can yield no flour;
    Even if it could,
    strangers would swallow it.

    When Ephraim made many altars to expiate sin,

    his altars became occasions of sin.
    Though I write for him my many ordinances,
    they are considered as a stranger’s.
    Though they offer sacrifice,
    immolate flesh and eat it,
    the LORD is not pleased with them.
    He shall still remember their guilt
    and punish their sins;
    they shall return to Egypt.

    Gospel MT 9:32-38

    A demoniac who could not speak was brought to Jesus,

    and when the demon was driven out the mute man spoke.
    The crowds were amazed and said,
    “Nothing like this has ever been seen in Israel.”
    But the Pharisees said,
    “He drives out demons by the prince of demons.”

    Jesus went around to all the towns and villages,

    teaching in their synagogues,
    proclaiming the Gospel of the Kingdom,
    and curing every disease and illness.
    At the sight of the crowds, his heart was moved with pity for them
    because they were troubled and abandoned,
    like sheep without a shepherd.
    Then he said to his disciples,
    “The harvest is abundant but the laborers are few;
    so ask the master of the harvest
    to send out laborers for his harvest.”

    Reflection Questions

    Where do you need to make amends?

    What pieces of God’s truth do you struggle with?

    When free and clear from sin, do you find it easier to stand up for the more difficult truths you believe in?

    Prayer

    Lord, show me a moment today where I can speak your truth, even if it is the unpopular opinion.

    4 min
  • July 6, 2020 - Monday of the Fourteenth Week in Ordinary Time
    Reading 1 HOS 2:16, 17C-18, 21-22

    Thus says the LORD:

    I will allure her;
    I will lead her into the desert
    and speak to her heart.
    She shall respond there as in the days of her youth,
    when she came up from the land of Egypt.

    On that day, says the LORD,

    She shall call me “My husband,”
    and never again “My baal.”

    I will espouse you to me forever:

    I will espouse you in right and in justice,
    in love and in mercy;
    I will espouse you in fidelity,
    and you shall know the LORD.

    Gospel MT 9:18-26

    While Jesus was speaking, an official came forward,

    knelt down before him, and said,
    “My daughter has just died.
    But come, lay your hand on her, and she will live.”
    Jesus rose and followed him, and so did his disciples.
    A woman suffering hemorrhages for twelve years came up behind him
    and touched the tassel on his cloak.
    She said to herself, “If only I can touch his cloak, I shall be cured.”
    Jesus turned around and saw her, and said,
    “Courage, daughter! Your faith has saved you.”
    And from that hour the woman was cured.

    When Jesus arrived at the official’s house

    and saw the flute players and the crowd who were making a commotion,
    he said, “Go away! The girl is not dead but sleeping.”
    And they ridiculed him.
    When the crowd was put out, he came and took her by the hand,
    and the little girl arose.
    And news of this spread throughout all that land.

    Reflection Questions

    Are you daily interactions with the people you live with bringing them closer to God?

    How can you encourage yourself and the people around you to reach out and touch the cloak of Jesus?

    What’s more important to you - game of your own or bringing about God’s Glory?

    Prayer

    Jesus, give me the courage to reach out and touch your cloak today. 

    3 min
  • July 5, 2020 - Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
    Reading 1 ZEC 9:9-10

    Thus says the LORD:

    Rejoice heartily, O daughter Zion,
    shout for joy, O daughter Jerusalem!
    See, your king shall come to you;
    a just savior is he,
    meek, and riding on an ass,
    on a colt, the foal of an ass.
    He shall banish the chariot from Ephraim,
    and the horse from Jerusalem;
    the warrior’s bow shall be banished,
    and he shall proclaim peace to the nations.
    His dominion shall be from sea to sea,
    and from the River to the ends of the earth.

    Reading 2 ROM 8:9, 11-13

    Brothers and sisters:

    You are not in the flesh;
    on the contrary, you are in the spirit,
    if only the Spirit of God dwells in you.
    Whoever does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to him.
    If the Spirit of the one who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you,
    the one who raised Christ from the dead
    will give life to your mortal bodies also,
    through his Spirit that dwells in you.
    Consequently, brothers and sisters,
    we are not debtors to the flesh,
    to live according to the flesh.
    For if you live according to the flesh, you will die,
    but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body,
    you will live.

    Gospel MT 11:25-30

    At that time Jesus exclaimed:

    “I give praise to you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth,
    for although you have hidden these things
    from the wise and the learned
    you have revealed them to little ones.
    Yes, Father, such has been your gracious will.
    All things have been handed over to me by my Father.
    No one knows the Son except the Father,
    and no one knows the Father except the Son
    and anyone to whom the Son wishes to reveal him.”

    “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened,

    and I will give you rest.
    Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,
    for I am meek and humble of heart;
    and you will find rest for yourselves.
    For my yoke is easy, and my burden light.”

    Reflection Questions

    What is one specific way you are praising God today?

    Today - are you choosing to live by your mortal body or the Spirit that dwells within it?

    Who was God to you in your childhood? How has your vision of Him changed throughout your life?

    What truth is God revealing to you today?

    Prayer

    Holy Father, move so deep in my souls that you cause such commotion that you cannot help but flow out of me into the people around me. 

    4 min
  • July 4, 2020 - Saturday of the 13th Week of Ordinary Time

    July 4, 2020 - Saturday of the Thirteenth Week of Ordinary Time 

    Reading 1: AM 9:11-15 

    Thus says the LORD: On that day I will raise up the fallen hut of David; I will wall up its breaches, raise up its ruins, and rebuild it as in the days of old, That they may conquer what is left of Edom and all the nations that shall bear my name, say I, the LORD, who will do this. Yes, days are coming, says the LORD, When the plowman shall overtake the reaper, and the vintager, him who sows the seed; The juice of grapes shall drip down the mountains, and all the hills shall run with it. I will bring about the restoration of my people Israel; they shall rebuild and inhabit their ruined cities, Plant vineyards and drink the wine, set out gardens and eat the fruits. I will plant them upon their own ground; never again shall they be plucked From the land I have given them, say I, the LORD, your God. 

    Gospel MT 9:14-17 

    The disciples of John approached Jesus and said, “Why do we and the Pharisees fast much, but your disciples do not fast?” Jesus answered them, “Can the wedding guests mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast. No one patches an old cloak with a piece of unshrunken cloth, for its fullness pulls away from the cloak and the tear gets worse. People do not put new wine into old wineskins. Otherwise the skins burst, the wine spills out, and the skins are ruined. Rather, they pour new wine into fresh wineskins, and both are preserved.”

    Reflection Questions

    What is God uprooting in your life? What is He planting?

    Where is God inviting you to reevaluate?

    When you align yourself with God’s will, no matter how difficult or easy that may be, are you able to see the fruits?

    Prayer

    Dear God, show us the places in our lives today that need a little refinement.

    3 min

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