Reflect more on one’s own shortcomings, and take other people’s strengths into account.

【Xian’er says so: “why not taking me abroad?”】

Xian’er asked Xian’san: “Tell me, why did Shifu take Xian’yi abroad, not me.
Am I that bad?”
Xian’san said nothing.
Xian’er asked Xian’si:“Tell me, why did Shifu take Xian’san abroad, not me?”
Xian’si said nothing.
Xian’er asked Xian’wu:“Why did Shifu take Xian’si abroad, not me?”
Xian’wu said nothing.
Xian’er asks Xian’liu:“Why did Shifu…”.
Xian’liu passes a book to Xian’er and said: “Er, stop asking. Go read and find out what Shifu says there.”

Below are quoted from my Shifu’s new book, Say Good Things—Master Xuecheng’s insight on the path to speaking like a Buddha.
Reflect more on one’s own shortcomings,
and take other people’s strengths into account.
The mind will less likely be out of balance.

多想想自己的不足，多看看他人的长处

【贤二如是说：为什么不带我出国】

贤二问贤三：”你说，师父为什么带贤一出国，不带我，难道我有这么差劲吗？”
贤三沉默。
贤二问贤四：”你说，师父为什么带贤三出国，不带我？”
贤四沉默。
贤二问贤五：”师父为什么带贤四出国，不带我？”
贤五沉默。
贤二问贤六：”师父为什么......”贤六递给贤二一本书，说：“二，别问了，
看看师父在书里是怎么说的吧。”

以下来自我师父的《好好说话》
平常多想想自己的不足，
多看看他人的长处，
就不容易让自己的心处于一个失衡的状况。