In this episode of Reflections With Hector and Lucy, the couple talk about Romance. What is it exactly? Is it only a type of chivalry that a man expresses to a woman? Can a woman be romantic with a man? How important is romance compared to the other things that make a relationship thrive? All that and more in this episode!

In this Special Episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple discuss Hector's board game creation called Now You're Dating! Hector discusses the inception of the game, the number of challenges presented in creating such a game, how the game is played, and who the best audience is for the game. You can follow the NYD saga on Instagram, @nowyouredating, and on Facebook. Go to nowyouredating.com to find out more information and to purchase the game. 

In this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple discuss love. They discuss the love they have for each other. They do a deep dive into whether they think "Love at first sight" is a real thing. They discuss the importance of loving yourself before loving someone else. All important aspects of love are discussed in this episode. Enjoy!

On this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple reflect on their eight years of marriage. The ups, the downs, and everything in between. From the first year of marriage, to becoming parents, the couple share their experiences of the trials and tribulations and what it takes to start a marriage and start a family.

In this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple talk about being in a relationship. Topics include how many dates do couples need to go on before making it official, types of relationships, legalities, rating your relationship, secrets, temptations, and much more. 

In this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple talk about their teaching experiences during the pandemic. They start with the news of COVID-19, but then go into how their teaching experiences were upended with the spread into their community. What followed was an array of challenges and each go into their unique perspective to come up with the best solution at their disposal. The couple also go into what the next school year may look like. 

In this episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the couple discuss everything about dating. Topics discussed include the first date, who pays for the date, the first kiss, and whether to invite your date home. Dine and ditching and safety issues are also discussed. Enjoy!

In this episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the couple talk about the fact that one partner often spends an indefinite amount of time waiting for their partner to take their relationship to the next level. Whether it's approaching them for the first time, asking them out on a date, being in an official relationship, proposing, or having kids, one partner may be in a hurry to get to the next level. So, what are they to do? Listen and you may find the answer! Enjoy!

In this sensitive episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the couple talk about the rest of the Relationship Deal Breakers that couples will or may face as their relationship builds. The topics discussed in this episode are tastes in music, TV, and film, politics, traveling, occupation, and abuse (verbal, emotional, physical, substance, alcohol). Hector and Lucy hope that this episode can be a conversation-starter and not a triggering moment for our listeners. The opinions shared in this episode are all theoretical in nature as the couple always preface what they say with "What if a parent says..." 

In this first of 2-part episode, Hector & Lucy discuss common Deal Breakers that should be discussed by potential or current partners about their relationship. Deal Breaker topics in this episode include children, how to raise children, life goals, religion, and finances. Enjoy!