Too often, guys will make finding a girlfriend their number one priority. Or if they have one already, they look to make her their main focus in life. This leads to failure in every case. Chasing success in other areas instead of chasing women will give you the best of both worlds because eventually, the women will chase you.
Still, every man needs purpose. Every man needs goals. The ideal man will set them, prioritize them over women, and work tirelessly to reach them. These goals may even bring him more happiness and motivation to live than women do. Further, he doesn’t necessarily have to reach them. The journey towards them is satisfying enough. But best of all, the results he can reap from such goals, the utility these purposes serve in his life, and the rewards of long-lasting satisfaction will do more for him than marrying a pornstar that never wants to stop having sex.