In this episode, I talk with Matthew Lesko, the well-known “question mark guy,” about why your heart is often smarter than your brain. Matthew has spent over 50 years helping people find free money and support through hidden government programs. We explore the power of listening to your heart, dealing with failure, and the value of community and helping others. You’ll hear stories about perseverance, why “weird” is often your superpower, and how trial and error leads to real wisdom. If you’re curious how to tap into free help or feel stuck trying to fit in, don’t miss this episode—Matthew’s insights will give you a new way to look at life’s challenges and opportunities. Listen in to discover why sometimes being real beats being smart.

Connect with Matthew Lesko

In this episode, Matthew Lesko discusses the importance of following your heart and shares insights on accessing free resources and government programs. To learn more about how you can find financial and community support, visit his website at leskohelp.com.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction & Guest Welcome

00:39 Matthew Lesko: Helping People Find Free Resources

03:26 Favorite Quote: "Your Heart is Smarter than Your Brain"

05:45 Personal Stories: Lessons from Failure

08:35 Individuality, Weirdness, and Finding Your Superpower

10:24 Heart vs. Brain: Following Intuition

11:17 Authenticity, Growth, and Being Real

12:30 Lesko’s Mission & Closing Remarks

In this episode, I talk with Dean Graves about how our perception of self shapes everything we experience and why "be the change you want to see in the world" can be a powerful guide. Dean is a meditation teacher and mental health counselor with over 20 years of experience, and he shares insights on happiness, self-awareness, and the idea that we grow by changing ourselves, not just the world around us. We discuss stress, unconscious beliefs, and the importance of exploring and refining our personal lens. Dean also explains why most people struggle to change themselves and shares lessons from his work in trauma healing, plus a few favorite quotes. If you're curious about happiness, self-exploration, and practical wisdom, tune in for some real-life inspiration and one surprising story about pushing a stone up a hill that might change the way you see your daily routines.

Connect with Dean Graves

To learn more about Dean Graves approach to mindfulness, healing, and enlightenment, visit his website, listen to his podcasts “Simple Enlightenment” and “Chatting with the Arcturians,” or check out any of his insightful books available on Amazon

Website: https://www.ddeangraves.org/

Twitter: https://x.com/deanhalf

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dean-graves

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction & Guest Welcome

00:59 Dean’s Favorite Quote: "Be the Change"

02:07 Understanding Perception of Self

04:54 Practicing the Quote in Real Life

07:59 The Challenge of Personal Change

11:47 The Sisyphus Analogy & Everyday Struggle

13:49 Breaking Free: Purpose & Fulfillment

16:00 Dean’s Work, Books & Where to Learn More

18:45 Episode Wrap-Up & Farewell

In this episode, I dive into the idea that "you can be anything you want to be" with my special guest, Gloria Vanderhorst. Gloria is a compassionate psychologist and writer with over 50 years of experience helping people find where they truly belong. We talk about how family expectations and self-doubt can get in the way, and why it's so important to pay attention to our own life experiences. Gloria shares inspiring stories, like how an 80-year-old found new energy through photography and how taking risks and exploring—like "read, reflect, respond"—can open hidden doors within us. We also talk about how to truly discover what you want, rather than just following the crowd. If you've ever wondered how to break out of old patterns or find a new direction, you’ll want to hear the wisdom Gloria shares. Tune in to find out the surprising ways you might uncover your own hidden talents and passions!

Connect with Gloria Vanderhorst

In this episode, Gloria Vanderhorst shares powerful insights on self-discovery and lifelong growth. To learn more about her approach and dive deeper into the themes of emotional connection and personal exploration, visit her website (www.drvanderhorst.com) and check out her book Read, Reflect, Respond: The Three Rs of Growth and Change.

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Chapters

00:00 Finding Your Place: Family Expectations and Self-Discovery

00:56 Gloria’s Favorite Quote: “You Can Be Anything You Want to Be”

02:34 Stories of Transformation at Any Age

05:37 Discovering What You Truly Want

06:24 Overcoming External Pressures and Honoring Your Own Path

10:39 The Importance of Exploration and Trying New Things

13:20 Reflection, Risks, and the Thrill of Growth

14:16 Psychology, Prescriptions, and the Mind-Body Connection

17:23 The Disclaimer: Limits and Realities of “You Can Be Anything”

20:12 Where to Find Gloria & Closing Remarks

In this episode, I talk with Daniel Tausan about how our beliefs shape our health and daily lives. Daniel is a freelance scientist with a background in stem cell biology and the founder of Timeless Sciences. He shares a powerful quote—“the sound of the rain needs no translation”—and explains how simple truths often get lost in our everyday language and beliefs. We dive into topics like the “belief effect,” symbols, and how emotions and language can impact our physical health. Daniel also shares stories from his personal and professional journey, showing how a shift in mindset can make all the difference. If you’ve ever wondered why your beliefs matter or how something as basic as language can change your wellbeing, you’ll want to listen to this episode. Tune in to discover the science and stories behind our most relatable wisdom!

Connect with Daniel Tausan

In this episode, Daniel Tausan unpacks the power of beliefs and language on our health and perception. To learn more about his personalized approach to wellness at the intersection of science and everyday living, visit timelinesciences.com and consider connecting with Daniel directly through his website.

Twitter: https://x.com/TimelineScience

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-tausan

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Chapters

00:00 Beliefs as Drivers of Health

00:21 Introducing Daniel Tausan

01:01 The Sound of the Rain: Daniel’s Guiding Quote

02:18 Language, Perception, and Reality

04:48 The Power of Belief in Health

06:19 Living in a World of Symbols

10:05 Placebo, Belief, and Physical Health

17:33 Emotions, Regret, and Personal Growth

20:49 Timeline Sciences and Closing Remarks

In this episode, I dive into the powerful idea that our inner world shapes our outer reality, joined by visionary technologist Eric McHugh. Eric is not only a serial entrepreneur, but also someone deeply driven by curiosity and the desire to make a positive impact. We explore his favorite quote: “As above, so below, as within, so without,” breaking down what it means for life, business, and personal growth. We talk about manifestation, the law of attraction, mental planes, and how taking action is key to real change. Eric shares stories from his own journey — from building businesses to creating meaningful relationships — all by starting with mindset and intention. If you want to understand how your thoughts, beliefs, and energy can transform your daily reality, you don’t want to miss this episode. Listen in to discover the simple secret behind turning your visions into real life.

Connect with Eric McHugh

In this episode, Eric McHugh explores the power of inner transformation and how our mental and spiritual states can shape our external reality. To learn more about Eric’s work in tech and entrepreneurship, connect with Eric and discover more about his unique blend of technology and personal growth.

Website: https://dataing.io/

Twitter: https://x.com/acesdotfun/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericdouglasmchugh/

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction & Guest Welcome

00:41 Eric’s Favorite Quote: As Above, So Below

01:54 Origins and Meaning of the Quote

03:51 Real-World Applications in Business

06:28 Personal Life Manifestations

08:44 Disclaimers & Karma Considerations

10:09 Visualization vs. Action

12:24 Identity, Action, and Becoming

16:37 Recap & Closing Remarks

In today’s episode, I sat down with Fadi Habib, founder of Legacy Wealth Builder Academy, to dig into one of his favorite quotes: “I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul,” from the poem Invictus. Fadi shared how this powerful mindset has helped him take charge in tough times—from losing a job to overcoming personal challenges—and how seeing ourselves as captains of our own lives can truly be empowering. We talked about what it means to stop playing the victim, start taking responsibility, and steer our own ships, no matter what storms come our way. My hope is that you’ll walk away feeling inspired to claim your own role as captain and shape your life with intention, even when you can’t control the weather. Thanks for listening, and keep steering forward!

Connect with Fadi Habib

• Website: https://legacywealthbuilderacademy.com/optin-o
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fadihabib/

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction & Fadi’s Favorite Quote

00:58 Reading "Invictus"

03:32 Interpreting the Quote

06:27 Putting Mastery Into Practice

10:18 Taking Responsibility vs. Playing Victim

13:33 The Captain Analogy Explained

19:01 Embracing Risk and Taking Action

21:19 Fadi’s Work and Financial Wisdom

24:38 Closing Thoughts & Where to Connect

In this episode, I talk with Deborah Bowers about how we can reclaim our power and control our emotions by mastering our thoughts. Deborah is not only a trailblazing sales and marketing expert but also the host of Deals with Heels. She opened up about her personal journey of healing and empowerment, especially after raising five children. We dive into ideas like why you shouldn’t let the past control your present, the importance of learning the right lessons, and how meditation and spending quiet time can change your mindset. You’ll hear honest stories about dealing with triggers, giving away your power, and the impact of thoughtful reflection. If you’re looking for relatable wisdom to help you feel more in control of your life and emotions, this conversation is for you. Tune in to hear how taking a few minutes of silence each day can help you discover what’s really yours—and what’s just noise

Connect with Debra Bowers

In this episode, Deborah Bowers shares transformative insights on reclaiming your power and finding emotional balance. To learn more about her approach to healing and empowerment, check out her Deals with Heels podcast dealswithheels.com

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/debra444bowers/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-bowers/

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction & Deborah’s Favorite Quote

00:50 The Power of Thoughts and Emotions

02:21 Healing, Triggers, and Gaining Control

04:25 Letting Go of Rumination

05:54 Learning from the Past vs. Ruminating

08:38 Mistakes, Perfectionism, and Resilience

11:10 Meditation, Self-Reflection, and Finding Clarity

16:39 Where to Find Deborah & Episode Wrap-Up

In this episode, I sat down with Jessica Martin to uncover the power of never saying “can’t,” and how this simple mindset shift can transform our lives. Jessica is a visionary leader and human strategist who helps people break free from societal constraints to find authenticity and meaning. We talk about overcoming challenges, business consulting, Adulting 101, and the impact of mindset on health and purpose. Jessica also shares personal stories about battling cancer and raising two daughters, showing how belief and persistence can push us through tough times. If you’re interested in finding your purpose, building resilience, or just need some encouragement, you won’t want to miss this candid conversation. Join me for insights on self-belief, empowerment, and the journey to living authentically—there’s a moment in here that might just change how you see your own life. Listen now to discover what happens when you never say “can’t.”

Connect with Jessica Martins

In this episode, Jessica Martin shares her journey of overcoming obstacles and helping others break free from societal constraints. To learn more about her transformative programs and connect with her work on empowerment and authenticity, visit blissoutholdings.

Website: https://jessicamartinllc.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/bliss-out-mentor/

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⁠Chapters

00:00 Breaking Free from Societal Constraints

00:01 Jessica’s Guiding Quote: “Never Say Can’t”

00:03 Overcoming Barriers in Early Adulthood

00:05 Navigating Health Challenges and Motherhood

00:07 Resilience Passed to the Next Generation

00:09 Mindset, Purpose, and Near-Death Experience

00:16 Discovering and Living Her Life Purpose

00:17 Overview of Jessica’s Businesses

00:20 Embracing Happiness and Authenticity

In this episode, I dive into the power of asking better questions and how that can truly change our lives, joined by the inspiring Marianne Hickman. Marianne is an international speaker and coach who once faced tough times as a single mom on welfare, but has since transformed her journey and now helps others find their voice. We talk about shifting from complaints to action, and how “better questions equals better results” can make a huge difference. Marianne shares a simple but powerful daily framework you can use right away, explores the courage it takes to ask for help, and even touches on the law of entropy and the Dunning Kruger effect. If you’re curious how changing the questions you ask can lead to real change—and want to hear some heartfelt wisdom that just might spark your next breakthrough—tune in to this episode. You’ll discover an easy question that could move you closer to the life you want.

Connect with Marianne Hickman

In this episode, Marianne Hickman shares her journey of resilience and the wisdom of asking better questions to improve your results in life and business. To connect with Marianne, explore her speaking tips, or access her resources for public speakers and aspiring podcast guests, visit her website at MarianneHickman.

Twitter: https://x.com/Marianne__ME

Insta: https://www.instagram.com/marianne__hickman/#

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Chapters

00:00 The Struggles That Sparked Change

00:32 Introducing Marianne Hickman

01:13 The Power of Better Questions

03:11 Reframing Challenges and the Role of the Brain

07:21 The Source of True Happiness

08:46 Asking for Help and Embracing Humility

12:25 Marianne’s Transformative Daily Question

18:58 A Simple Framework for Better Questions

22:17 Embracing Growth and Taking Action

In this episode, I sat down with Cody Johnston to explore why so many of us feel stuck in “the matrix” of daily life. Cody, a Canadian software engineer and content creator known online as The Weird Canadian, talks about his journey from seeing life as a series of struggles—“life sucks, then you die”—to realizing how much power we actually have to shape our stories. We unpack ideas like breaking the mold, the failure of old systems, the meaning behind the 9 to 5, and how Gen Z and later generations are craving something new. We laugh about the tough lessons, and reflect on how real change often means making brave choices and finding meaning in chaos. If you’ve ever wondered whether you can do more than just accept things as they are, or if you want to hear practical wisdom on creating your own path, this episode is for you. Tune in and discover Cody’s fresh take on work, society, and the power of choice—you might never see “the system” the same way again.

Connect with Cody Johnston In this episode, Cody Johnston shares his thoughts on breaking societal molds and building a meaningful life beyond tradition. Connect with Cody and follow his journey by searching for "the Weird Canadian" on social media or catching his videos on YouTube to join his ongoing revolution.

Website: https://theweirdcanadian.ca/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cody-johnston

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Chapters

00:00 The Matrix of Modern Life

00:37 Meet Cody Johnston & His Favorite Quote

01:27 The Origins of "Life Sucks, Then You Die"

02:54 Breaking the Mold: Exceptions and Change

04:45 Is the System Working for Us?

05:43 Evolving the Motto: The Power of Choice

10:13 Rethinking the 9-to-5 and Education

15:12 Building a New Path Forward