In this episode of Relation EQ, host Julie Sims welcomes Sarah Harmeyer, a woman with a remarkable gift for gathering people through her business Neighbor's Table. Sarah shares her journey of discovering her unique calling to be a 'people gatherer' and how she uses her custom-made tables to bring people together across the United States. She discusses the impact of these gatherings on her life and community and provides practical insights into how anyone can foster connections through hospitality. With stories of overcoming challenges, embracing vulnerability, and creating meaningful experiences, Sarah inspires listeners to open their homes and hearts to others. Julie and Sarah explore the profound, yet simple, act of inviting people into their lives and the transformative power of love and connection.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

01:00 Sarah Harmeyer's Background and Journey

03:24 The Birth of Neighbor's Table

06:37 Gathering Experiences and Community Impact

13:22 Expanding the Neighbor's Table Concept

18:20 Practical Tips for Hosting Gatherings

26:27 Creating Meaningful Connections

30:45 Setting the Scene for Hospitality

31:14 Creating a Welcoming Atmosphere

34:08 The Power of Belonging

35:47 Connecting with Neighbors

36:27 Creative Ways to Meet People

37:48 The Impact of Simple Gestures

41:54 Hosting a Mega Neighbor's Table

49:07 The Legacy of Neighbor's Table

51:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

To connect with Sarah Harmeyer or to purchase your own table visit Sarah's website http://www.neighborstable.com/

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In this episode of Relation EQ, our host Julie sits down with former professional model Kayln King, also known as Kayln Hemphill, who has transitioned from a successful runway career to being a full-time wife and mother of twins. They discuss Kayln’s experience on 'Models of the Runway’, the challenges and surprises of motherhood, and the significant shift from a self-focused career to focusing on family life. Kayln shares her insights on humility, contentment, and the value of different life seasons, emphasizing the importance of adaptability and faith. This heartfelt conversation highlights the beauty and growth found in embracing new chapters.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00 Introduction to Kayln King: From Runway Model to Full-Time Mom

00:51 Kayln’s Journey on Models of the Runway

04:51 Early Modeling Days and Career Evolution

08:47 Maintaining Modesty and Setting Boundaries in Modeling

13:19 Transitioning to Motherhood: Challenges and Joys

17:23 Reflections on Parenting and Personal Growth

23:21 Surviving and Embracing Seasons

23:34 Reflecting on Past Seasons

24:31 Balancing Motherhood and Career

26:49 Teaching Life Lessons

29:36 The Joy of Parenting

30:49 Transitioning Careers and Lifestyles

40:03 The Value of Simplicity

43:50 Looking Forward to New Seasons

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In this episode of Relation EQ, Brian and Julie Sims introduce their special guest, 19-year-old Cammie Smith, who has bravely battled cancer and chronic illness. Despite facing significant health challenges, Cammie has built a following of over 70,000 on her Instagram account, 'Chronically Cammie.' The conversation delves into Cammie's experiences, including her diagnosis with acute B cell lymphoblastic leukemia at the age of two, her struggle with chronic nausea starting in her sophomore year of high school, and the difficulties she has faced in maintaining a sense of normalcy. Cammie also describes how her chronic illness has impacted her relationships with her brother and sisters. As she approaches a critical surgery to address a structural issue in her neck, Cammie remains hopeful for a future where she can live a more typical life, including attending college to study zoology. She shares insights into her family dynamics and coping mechanisms, particularly the use of humor to navigate challenging times. Cammie emphasizes the importance of not losing hope and looks forward to a brighter future post-surgery.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

00:00 Welcome Back to Relation EQ

00:18 Introducing Cammie Smith

00:56 Cammie's Early Battle with Cancer

03:00 Living with Chronic Illness

11:52 High School Struggles and New Diagnoses

15:40 Preparing for Life-Changing Surgery

20:34 Struggling with Food and Calories

20:55 Marching Band Challenges

22:04 Sibling Dynamics and Achievements

23:00 Social Life and Humor as a Coping Mechanism

23:27 Dealing with Judgement and Health Issues

27:29 Facing Dark Moments and PTSD

30:04 Family Impact and Relationships

37:57 Future Aspirations and Hope

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In this episode, Julie sits down to have an honest conversation with Kristin Watne on the importance of creating a safe place in relationships. In their conversation you will hear why it’s important to listen in order to bring empathy and trustworthiness to your relationships. Julie and Kristin provides insights and guidelines on how to be a safe person, including tips on building trust and maintaining healthy communication. The conversation also touches on personal experiences and reflections on parenting and building strong connections with others.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

• Oversharing can create problems in relationships.

• 4 Keys To Knowing If You Are A Safe Person:

• 1. Would I share what I know about this person if that person was here with me?

• 2. Is what I’m sharing about this person positive or negative?

• 3. Does this person no longer give details on their lives but only gives just facts and figures?

• How do I get my relationship back on track if I’ve broken trust?

• 1. Own Your mistake.

• 2. Don’t make excuses for your actions.

• 3. Give up the right to be right.

• Ask yourself: Do people seek me out?

Follow Kristin Watne on her YouTube channel @ https://www.youtube.com/@Kristin-Watne

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Let’s face it. We’ve all asked ourselves, “How did I get here?” at one time or another in our marriages or in any relationship. Sometimes we find ourselves in a difficult or dangerous relationship that we don't know how to get out of.  In this episode, Julie Sims sits down with her good friend Linda Gromowsky to have an honest conversation centered around the question, “How did I get here?” Linda discusses the decisions that led her down a difficult path in her marriage relationship and the steps she took to get out of a frightening and dangerous situation.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

• Linda explains two false truths she was taught as a child.

• Linda recounts the events of her first marriage that would eventually lead to a divorce.

• Linda discusses the effects her divorce had on her and her children.

• Linda shares the trauma she experienced as a child which led her to make decisions for herself and her children.

• You are making unhealthy decisions if you don’t take care of yourself.

• Find ‘one’ person you trust that has your best interest in mind and only share your situation with that person.

In this episode, we explore the power of saying “Yes” to your children, spouses, and employees. Brian and Julie discuss the importance of saying “Yes” to opportunities and ideas, especially within family dynamics. They emphasize the impact saying “Yes” has on personal growth, building trust, and opening doors to new possibilities. Through personal stories and reflections, Brian and Julie highlight how saying “Yes” can lead to transformative experiences and long-lasting memories.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

• Saying “Yes” leads to new opportunities and opens doors; whereas, saying “No” can close a door and lead to missed opportunities.

• Saying “Yes” builds trust.

• Saying “Yes” creates conversation and can help build negotiation skills.

• Saying “Yes” led to new opportunities.

• Saying “Yes” gives children confidence and gives parents the opportunity to see their child’s potential.

• Brian and Julie highlight the importance of saying “Yes” to your spouse!

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Welcome to Season 2 of Relation EQ. We kick this brand new season off with Brian and Julie explaining why dating is essential to maintaining peace and harmony in any marriage or dating relationship. Brian and Julie discuss creative ideas for dates and explain some of the dates they have been on. They also discuss some of the regrets many people have confessed on their deathbeds about not spending enough time with loved ones.

EPISODE HIGHTLIGHTS:

• Be intentional about setting a date for your date.

• When you feel prioritized you feel valued.

• The money you spend now dating will be way less than the money you end up spending on counseling or divorce.

• Build your schedule so you can connect during the week.

• Dating should always be face to face.

• Brian and Julie discuss dating your children and give examples of adventures they have had with their kids.

• Brian and Julie discuss two of the Top 5 Regrets of Dying:

• 1. I Wish I Hadn’t Worked So Hard

• 2. I Wish I Let Myself Be Happier

• Have fun. Be your authentic self.

Check out the book: The 5 Top Regrets of Dying by Bronnie Ware available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Top-Five-Regrets-Dying-Transformed/dp/140194065X

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In this heartfelt episode of Relation EQ, join us as Arbnore Haliti recounts her harrowing escape as a child from Kosovo’s war in 1998 to her family's resettlement in the U.S. From tragedy to hope, discover her transformation into a confident, proud American determined to repay the community that embraced her.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

• Arbnore describes her family’s escape from Kosovo.

• Arbnore recounts the U.S. military's impactful kindness to her family.

• Arbnore tells how she embraces Amarillo as her foundation.

• Arbnore shares how she inspires others with a no-limits mindset.

Quote: “I'm here because of my family, and we have made roots here. I have to give back to Amarillo 'cause’ it has given so much to me."

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In this episode, Julie Sims interviews Christy Smith. At age 23, Christy was a single mom with a five year old son when she had an abortion for the first time. Christy explains the trauma associated with the process of having that abortion and the healing journey she went through. She now helps others heal from this trauma.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

• Many women who have abortions often experience PTSD symptoms.

• Christy shares her story of having an abortion.

• The biggest lie: “What is everyone else going to think?”

• You have to go back in order to move ahead. We pass on what we haven’t cleaned up.

• Christy explains the strategy she used in telling her children about her abortion experience.

• It’s important to FORGIVE YOURSELF!

• There is power in surrender.

For more information on the book “Surrendering The Secret of Abortion”, visit: https://www.amazon.com/Surrendering-Secret-Healing-Heartbreak-Abortion/dp/1535947330/ref=sr_1_1?crid=12SP9O3PGJBUY&keywords=Surrendering+The+Secret+of+abortion&qid=1687971051&sprefix=surrendering+the+secret+of+abortion%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-1

Visit the website: http://surrenderingthesecret.org/

For more information on the book, “The Emotion Code” visit https://discoverhealing.com/the-emotion-code/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI3_eMy7bm_wIVxHxMCh1EeAncEAAYASABEgIiNfD_BwE

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In the first of our “manly” episodes, Brian Sims sits down to have a conversation with his good friend Dubb Alexander about Emotional Intelligence. Dubb Alexander is a spiritual advisor with a passion to see The Kingdom of God made practical and implemented into culture. Dubb explains what emotional intelligence is and how he uses emotional intelligence in dealing with nations in his work at the United Nations.

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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

• Emotional Intelligence is the capacity to be aware of oneself and others around you.
• Emotional intelligence MUST begin with self-awareness.
• 2 Tools to help with self-awareness: 1. Put some time into your day to intentionally think about what you are thinking about. 2. Have people in your life that you trust to give you 360 feedback.
• The level of emotional intelligence you operate in, the greater value you can offer AND receive.
• If we misunderstand our emotions instead of governing them, we will end up misusing them.
• Ask yourself, “What emotional state do I want to live the majority of my life in?”
• 3 Tools to help increase your Emotional Intelligence:
• 1. Self-awareness
• 1. R.A.P.P.O.R.T. (Really All People Prefer Others Reflecting Themselves)
• 1. The D.I.S.C. Test
• Dubb explains how he uses emotional intelligence in his global consulting work.
• Use emotional intelligence as an acceleration NOT a manipulation.

For more information on Dubb Alexander visit his YouTube Channel @ https://www.youtube.com/@SchoolofKingdom

Read Dubb Alexander’s book , “From the Cult to the Kingdom” available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Cult-Kingdom-commune-Waco-halls/dp/1737873400/ref=sr_1_1?crid=4PV4A8DPGCQE&keywords=Dub+Alexander&qid=1682354539&sprefix=dub+alexander%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1

If you would like more information on the D.I.S.C. test mentioned in this episode, check out Jason Weaver’s site @ https://jasontweaver.com/

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