For Millions of years humans have communicated without words and it’s the same today, over 90% of the real communication that goes on in relationships is unspoken.

Often when a relationship has become disconnected an affair becomes an option, one to send a message to the partner and two as a solution to loneliness inside the relationship. It is of course a disastrous option to take. However, the question is, can you recover from an affair?

An important topic, and one that directly affects your relationship. To have have great sex, requires deep, communication and connection..

After the experience of relationship loss, how can you find the courage and skills to love again.

There many reasons why relationships run into trouble but there’s only one reason why they fail…..

Every relationship goes through seasons. If you don’t understand how to transition those you end up in a place of two beautiful people, leading parallel and unconnected lives.

It’s unfortunately very common to get into this cycle of arguing and an uneasy truce where nothing gets resolved and back to arguing again and the end result is resentment builds up.

There are ways around this.

Sex, money, kids, him working too much her spending too much or being focused on the kids. These are the apparent problems that plague every relationship.

However it’s never those problems it’s called triangulation and there is a solution to it.

This dynamic of him trying to please her and slowly but surely her becoming more pissed off and losing any hope that things can change is destroying marriages. You have to learn the way out of this trap.

You might think no one likes arguing but actually women don’t mind at all. So in a relationship if you’re not arguing it’s a problem and if you’re arguing the wrong way it’s a problem. So the question is how do you argue the right way?