In today's episode:

Dr. Frankie and Denise Rai sit down with relationship coach Roy Biancalana, who shares how heartbreak led him down a path of deep introspection and transformation. Roy opens up about his own mistakes in love—and how self-awareness became the key to breaking painful patterns and attracting authentic, lasting connection.

Together, they explore what it really means to “get in shape” for a relationship, how unresolved baggage creates emotional walls, and why rushing into love without reflection often sets us up for heartache. Roy offers actionable insight into how slowing down, practicing vulnerability, and taking radical responsibility can reshape the way we date—and love.

Meet Roy Biancalana – a nationally recognized relationship coach, bestselling author, and host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast. With over 15 years of experience, Roy helps singles break free from the internal blocks that keep them stuck in frustrating dating patterns. His work is rooted in personal transformation—after going through divorce, heartbreak, and a series of failed relationships, Roy turned to coaching himself, and that journey led him to help others do the same.

He’s the author of Relationship Bootcamp: Hard-Core Training for Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy, where he challenges readers to get in “relationship shape” through deep inner work and self-awareness. Roy’s approach blends modern coaching tools with spiritual insight, empowering people to show up fully in dating and build conscious, lasting connections.

Whether you’ve struggled to attract the right partner or want to stop repeating old patterns, Roy offers powerful, practical strategies to help you get unstuck and start attracting the kind of love that actually lasts.

Links:

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RELATIONSHIP BOOTCAMP: Hard-Core Training for Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy: BIANCALANA, ROY A.: 9781733301404: Amazon.com: Books